I see my ex everyday in office
Hi all, Need a small advice!
Last year i was in a relationship which started off really good but i had to end things with her due to a number of reasons. However , i thought it will give me peace but it just hurts me even more seeing her everyday in office. I think if i had tried more, given her chance i might have been able to save this relationship. Lastly i need an advice for - should i talk to her again and try to fix things?
If it has not been too long since you broke up and if you are certain that she isn't in a relationship with someone else then only you can try.
Otherwise switch the project or company.
Wishing you the best!
Thanks, I don’t know if she’s seeing someone or not , most probably not. It has been around 1 year 3 months & i tried to move on connecting with others but it didn’t work out. I was constantly reminded of how things were between us.
Do you still have feelings for her? You said seeing her in office hurts you, so is it because you think that decision of breaking up with her was wrong or you were hurt because of things she did? My advice to you would be...If you guys ended up on a good note then just move on. Change company, city or start seeing someone else. You really need to move on......more you see her in same office/city more hard it will be to forget her.
I do have feelings, i never wanted to end things but her to understand things from my perspective and that wasn’t really working out. I tried explaining to her but eventually the argument turned up in ending things on a bad note which i never wanted. I went away from the city for some time but had to come back due to project. I don’t think changing organisation is really the solution but it does seems to me that i have to find a way to not see her.
I was in similar situations 1 year ago. If you have some felling then why not give it a try, If not then don't talk to her until it's related to work. Be like she doesn't exist in office.
I want to but what if she doesn’t want to talk to me, i heard from my friend that she was asking about me and how i am doing but not sure if she’s with someone or not. A little tricky situation i can say.
I think you should talk to her and rekindle. Love is tough to find. Enjoy and relish it when it lasts
Some doors are best left closed, my friend,
For not all old paths are worth the walk again.
I know it's really hard but moving on is best for both of you. As you said it's already a year, so there's no point in going back. Somebody rightly suggested to move on to another company if you can.
No..Don't reach out..Resign and join another office..Stay away from ex
