I'm very hurt and very much fucked up
I'm in a relationship with my gf from last 3-4yr. I love her very much and have never seen a girl like her. She loves me more than i do. We're very happy together very happy 🧿. We both talked about us at our home to get married and both family have agreed to get married. My mom met my girlfriend multiple times and everything went well. Families haven't met in real yet. But things were looking good. From past couple for months my mom acts very weird she say bad things about her and I can't tolerate. My gf is modern girl wear crop top short dresses and everything and I don't think she over do something. Today my mom said over an argument between the two of us she said. Nangi photos dalti hai teri gf koi achi ladki ese photos nahi dalti which is very hurt full to hear. This is the one thing only few more things happened in past. I'm from uper caste and she's from obc my mom comes up with this statement as well Ye log ese hote hai vesr hote hai and I'm tired of proving my girl's decency again and again. She's a good girl with very strong morals.
How to handle this type of situation.
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Tough situation bro. Its almost impossible to find someone who loves you so much. I would say you shouldn’t let her go. Can you take your father’s help here? I think your mom is a bit orthodox and you need to have a clear conversation with her that you want to marry your gf. It looks like your mom will never respect her but you can still give it a shot. Please don’t tell this to your gf, she will get hurt even more than you. At last, it might be possible that you need to make a choice between her and your mom.
I will never let her go under any circumstances. She's the one who always pushes me to go higher and she always respect my mom and care about her she always asks me to buy something for my mom. Take her out and many things.
And my mom wouldn't listen to me she believes whatever she wants to believe.
I'm a very calm guy i never raise my voice or get angry on ladies. Still she doesn't want to hear me out about her
Try taking help from your father or your grandparents? Wish you luck bro i hope you both get marry 🫶🏻
Bro, both your mom and your girlfriend are very important in your life, and you love them in different ways. Your girlfriend sounds like a genuine, loving person who makes you happy and your mom has her own concerns because of her mindset and generation. Try to calmly explain to your mom what you see in your girlfriend and at the same time reassure her that she’ll never lose her place in your life. With patience, both sides can slowly understand each other. At the end of the day, you want both of them happy with you.
Yes i love them both. But i can't balance it. Its nearly impossible.
My mom wants me to do things in her way. I did try to convey things but didn't work something new comes up everytime.
Everything is manageable but hearing bad about my gf is very sad to see and hard to tolerate
