I’m 30 now. I have my own apartment, a car, and no loans — yet I’m still single.
I’ve never really felt the need to get married. I’m not very connected to my relatives, so arranged marriage was never an option. And honestly, seeing so many divorce cases where people end up losing half their earnings and assets has made me even more cautious.
That got me thinking…
Is marriage truly necessary for a successful life or for having someone to grow old with and take care of each other?
I’d love to know your thoughts — let’s keep it real.
Without a wife or kid nobody will put up with the nonsense of corporate slavery.
My kid's school fees are the only reason I smile to the shitty jokes of my manager.
Most people get married because they’re afraid. Afraid of getting older, afraid of being lonely, afraid they’ll not get “good” partners later, afraid how they’ll survive in this society. But don’t be afraid. Marry only and only for one reason, when you really find a true friend in your partner. Else, it’s pointless. Everything fades in marriage with time, societal pressures, sex, “need” to be with someone.
How tf is someone supposed to 'find' a good friend/partner in indian culture. Dating is almost non-existent here.
Married people don’t fearmonger like this. They don’t cope like this.
Just marry bro Life need intersting problems
There is no incentive for men to get married these days. Bang hoes, hire maid for housework. You're sorted. Chat with AI chatbots for emotional support and shit.
Next season.... STD XD
How is this man for real
This might sound harsh but take 1 day leave and go to the family court and see the boys/parents faces for 1 day , just get to the real side and their story
So that you know what the worst that can very easily happen (now a days)
I know one that is why lot of guys are scared these days to get married.
Yeah do the same with accident data in this country and then stop going out on the road as well. Sit in your house, do nothing. Best life.
How do you own an apartment without home loan at 30? Please shed some light.
Owning an apartment is no big deal. Now whether it's a 1 BHK crapfest or a 4BHK penthouse is a different story.
Before starting Job I used to do freelancing from very young age bought my first apartment when I was 24 without any loan. I own 2bhk and 4bhk
The most basic reason for anyone who desires for a partner (married or committed) is to have a witness. 8 billion people in this world and it's easy to feel lost, invisible, and lonely. When you marry the right person, you will have a witness to see and acknowledge all that you do, all that you go through. People parallel park and look around to see if there was a witness who noticed what a great job they did with perfect parking. Imagine achieving all great things in life, only to look around and realise there was no one noticing your struggle and efforts closely.
Perfect explanation
