SnoozyMuffin
SnoozyMuffin
15mo
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I love my body, but I am fat. Should I lose weight or wait for someone who accepts me as I am?

15mo ago
ZestyPotato
ZestyPotato

Bro, If you believe you should loose weight then you should. Partner aayga jaayga aapki body aap dhyan do

ZestyBurrito
ZestyBurrito

If you are overweight, and you know it's not good for you, then that's what your focus should be on, that's what matters. What someone else thinks about your appearance shouldn't take the wheel.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
15mo

Thats such an interesting question. I used to stumble across it.

The way I saw was - being comfortable with who i am is important. But, being fat increases lots of health risks. Hence, we shouldn't think of someone coming and accepting us for who we are, but rather, work towards getting healthier.

This would help us live more with the people we love!

BubblyCupcake
BubblyCupcake

Bhai, if you can’t like yourself then what’s the point of someone else liking you?

ZippyJellybean
ZippyJellybean
15mo

If you’re healthy and the excess weight is just a part of body type, I think it is okay.
Unless there are health complications, you’re perfect as is.

TwirlyBagel
TwirlyBagel

Better to lose weight not becoz to get love from someone, just that you have to love urself.

FloatingMarshmallow
FloatingMarshmallow

Wait for someone who accepts you as you are but if you are not healthy and active because of fat, try to reduce it.

FluffyBagel
FluffyBagel
15mo

Bigger question is would you love yourself more if you were more healthy and agile.

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster
15mo

Work on both, faster success

SillyNugget
SillyNugget

It is great that you’re comfortable with your body. But if you want to lose weight then do it for yourself, not because someone may like you after that.

In any case, stay active as much as possible. Take 8k steps a day, at least.

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