I have never been loved by anyone

Hope you find your man!!

Suddenly more girls are opening up. Kudos to GV for creating a safe space to vent out. Even if its anon, females have a hard time on internet. Hope this safe space stays intact

First, most guys do want physical intimacy. Nothing wrong with it as such, that's just how we are made biologically. If you can't understand and fulfill that, you'll remain single.

Second, when it comes to marriage guys do want partners to pitch in these days. Would you be happy leaving job and handling the house and family if given a choice from a high earning man? Because a lot of women aren't willing to do that anymore either.

You can't have your cake and eat it at the same time. You have expectations from guys, so do guys from their partners. It's a give and take at the end of the day, learn how to negotiate such things in relationships. It is a valuable skill.

Nothing happens overnight

It takes years of living together, before the so-called unconditional love sprouts. That's the time when you start functioning like one unit. Every person is flawed in some way or another and accepting the flaws is the first step towards this.

Going into a relationship with a pre-made notion of an ideal man is something that will result in heart ache later on. What will happen is that, if the person does not meet the expectations which you have already made up through years of thinking, you start to feel the relationship is not working out. That's what happens in most of the failed relationships.

The better way, is to see how the guy treats others, because during the start of the relationship everything is goody goody to each other. How he treats elderly or the economically weaker sections of the society. Does he respect women. What are his views on having kids etc. Talk about the boring parts of being together.

That being said, if you want to experience unconditional love firsthand, get a puppy. But, again you have to groom, bathe, take the dog out for walks, feed him, take to the vet etc the parts which nobody talks about of having unconditional love.

Hey, I feel you, don't get sad. You are a dream girl without any past, I wish the best for you!. I read through the comments you seem like a really kind hearted and genuine girl.

Same story . It looks like many people are living the same depressed, lonely life after COVID. Working from home has really made life tough for many.

I think we have all become too commercial when it comes to love and intimacy, I mean i get that its part of evolution. Earlier women used to pick the strongest man to ensure her family survival, now its the smartest with most money to ensure survival. Nothing has changed, just how we perceive things. In the end its just a bunch of chemicals firing in your head and eventually it fades away.

But good luck in finding your mate, ive given up on my journey as everyone i meet is too dead inside or is just too fake on the outside.

As a woman in her late 20s, I have friends who have prioritised career over relationships and are still single. They cry about not finding the perfect guy... They surely put a lot of effort to find the perfect job, but want the dream guy with least efforts. Most eligible guys are already taken. I have been in a relationship since 2021 and I'm going to marry him in another 2 years... I feel you need a few years at least to know a guy before marrying. Heard a lot of cases of divorce after arranged marriage.

I have no idea about relationships, but switching out from remote to hybrid might help..

"There was one man who approached me for marriage but he said He wants a girl whose earning should be enough so that she can fullfill her requirements and can give 50% of her salary to him (joint account) he will not spent money on her and will not take her responsibility after marriage"

Bid Red Flag, don't be okay with such arrangement in future even when your mind says to. I as a man love to spend for my family. What's the point of me earning if not at least this much.