
I have asked out 3 men in my life, at different stages of life, all rejected me.
What is up with this streak, what is it I am not able to get right
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I have usually seen men don't get interested if the women directly ask them out or tell them that she likes them.
Try indirectly, maybe start with being friends and see if it works out.
Try this next time


Same here. Genuinely with all my heart with the intention of getting married with the intention of having kids with the intention of growing old and dying I her hands I ask 2 women in my 31 years of life. 1 women said no after 1st date. I was 24. I went home I was all alone I cried my heart out (tears started flowing as I write this). I couldn’t sit at home I went out for a movie met with an accident though a minor one. Most painful moment in my life.
After 6 years at 30 years old I asked another women out with pure intentions she outright said no. I waited another year and asked again she said no. Went home cried my heart out.
The thing is it’s not that I look ugly or can’t speak. I dated a handful of women but I never got that feeling with these women what I got when I first saw these 2 amazing ladies.
Why life has to be so painful?

I really understand your place. I don't even believe in marriage, but this man felt marriage worthy to my guts
Didn't want to take any steps that would lower my respect, hence backed off. It still hurts to the core. He lives normally, as if this never meant anything to him

Ur not hot enough

Maybe your standards are too high? 🤷🏻♂️
We always want to chase what we can't get. Maybe try looking beyond your current filters for a partner.






