I have a crush on girl in my office
There is this one very beautiful girl in the legal team and i have gotten a crush on her for past 3-4 months. I have never even tried to talk to her. I feel nervous whenever she is around
I just want to remove that feeling and make sure she is out of mind. Also I think she is just so beautiful that she for sure has a boyfriend
What should I do to make sure that I don't feel anything about her or should I just keep admiring her from distance.
Also she doesn't have a lot of friends in office but I find her very attractive.
मन से बड़ा बहुरूपी ना कोई, पल पल रचता स्वांग निराले। माया ममता में उलझा रहे वो, पड़ जाये जो मन के पाले। मन के बहकावे में न आ, मन राह भुलाये भ्रम में डाले। तू इस मन का दास ना बन, इस मन को अपना दास बना ले।
The office is not a safe place to have a crush or feelings of any sort - you may understand this 10+ years from now. So, if you can't have a relationship with her tell yourself that and follow the wall-street advice from earlier 😂 Jokes aside, try to keep yourself busy and avoid any eye contact - that may mess with your mind cause once you get into anyone's pants, the marginal curve of utility takes a nose dive until it crashes. So wise-up and snap out of it!
POSH lagega bhai. Career > Office Crush
A simple Hi won't trigger POSH.
But what after that
Slowly distance yourself, even your thoughts..it fades away
This will continue until you express
Next time you see her tell her
Yes/No will see. But u will find peace
( I did the same)
