I have a crush on girl in my office
There is this one very beautiful girl in the legal team and i have gotten a crush on her for past 3-4 months. I have never even tried to talk to her. I feel nervous whenever she is around
I just want to remove that feeling and make sure she is out of mind. Also I think she is just so beautiful that she for sure has a boyfriend
What should I do to make sure that I don't feel anything about her or should I just keep admiring her from distance.
Also she doesn't have a lot of friends in office but I find her very attractive.
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Beauty not admired is a sin!
Keep admiring but from a safe distance!!
Going to the office should be exciting Or else where's the fun!!!
But after a certain time you start feeling should I approach how to approach what will I say
If I do then what will happen why so much of patience 😭😭
मन से बड़ा बहुरूपी ना कोई, पल पल रचता स्वांग निराले। माया ममता में उलझा रहे वो, पड़ जाये जो मन के पाले। मन के बहकावे में न आ, मन राह भुलाये भ्रम में डाले। तू इस मन का दास ना बन, इस मन को अपना दास बना ले।
Today is DAY-1 of me not looking at her and following everyone's advice here 😕
Day -2 of avoiding
The office is not a safe place to have a crush or feelings of any sort - you may understand this 10+ years from now. So, if you can't have a relationship with her tell yourself that and follow the wall-street advice from earlier 😂 Jokes aside, try to keep yourself busy and avoid any eye contact - that may mess with your mind cause once you get into anyone's pants, the marginal curve of utility takes a nose dive until it crashes. So wise-up and snap out of it!
This will continue until you express
Next time you see her tell her
Yes/No will see. But u will find peace
( I did the same)
POSH lagega bhai. Career > Office Crush
A simple Hi won't trigger POSH.
But what after that
Slowly distance yourself, even your thoughts..it fades away