SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco

I approached her friend!!

I saw this girl at a chai shop one day, sitting alone, and I wanted to approach her but couldn’t gather the courage. The next day, I saw her again, and the same thing happened—I couldn’t approach her. I told myself that the next time I saw her, I’d approach her no matter what.

When that day finally came, she was with her friend. Once again, I couldn’t bring myself to talk to her. Frustrated, I made up my mind that this time I’d approach her no matter what. So, when I saw her again the next day with the same friend, I approached... her friend instead. I don’t even know why—maybe it was the pressure of the situation.

I was super nervous and probably talked to her friend for a minute or so. She clearly wasn’t interested. I told her she looked pretty and even asked for her Instagram, but then she got a call from her friend (the girl I originally wanted to approach) and left.

At the time, I didn’t think much of it. But now I keep seeing the main girl at the chai shop, and I can’t stop wondering why I approached her friend instead. She’s usually there with another friend or two, including the one I awkwardly spoke to.

Today, I saw her again with her two friends (including the girl I approached), and they ended up sitting at the same table as me. It’s a small tea shop, so there’s not much space. I just sat there scrolling through my phone and occasionally glancing around, thinking to myself, Why did I approach her friend instead of her?

So, my question is: Have I lost my chance to approach the main girl? Or should I just move on and forget about what happened?

12mo ago
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WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

show her this post, what do you have to lose ?

go for it

SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco
TCS12mo

I'll have to approach her for that 🥲

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

Approach her bro. What's the loss. Anyways you are losing by not approaching

SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco
TCS12mo

Is it not scary 😨

SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco
TCS12mo

I don't get the confidence everytime. And this case is special. Considering her friend was also not interested in talking so...

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka
Hinge12mo

Why did you approach the side girl with main girl questions 🥴 Ab main girl gayi

SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco
TCS12mo

No idea 🥲

BubblyPotato
BubblyPotato

Lmao😂😂😂😂 this is so funny 😂😂😂 why would you do that

SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco
TCS12mo

No idea 🥲

PrancingPickle
PrancingPickle

You ended working up entire sprint on stories which were not planned for. 0 sprint points to you.
Jokes aside feel sorry for you man. Hope things work out well.

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