I am in a bad situation
I have been in a relationship for the last 6 years. my girlfriend is of a different caste but the same religion. we truly love each other. But my parents will not accept the different cast. I come from a very small village where my father used to be a Mukhiya . For My mother and father the family's reputation is above all. we can't even run and get married. My mother and father have done extremely hard-work to educate me and get a job. It feels very bad to go against them. Also from childhood we have never discussed or even talked about such or any kind of sensitive topic. I don't even know how to tell them about this. and convince. if you have any suggestions please do share. I am frustrated now. Because my girlfriends parents have started looking for a guy for her. and she can't tell her parents unless I ask mine. what should I do?
Talking product sense with Ridhi
9 min AI interview5 questions
I know I shouldn't say this but how the f**k do people fall in love with other caste or religion if they know they don't have strength to approach their parents? What is this bollywood fantasy?
Agree with you! But it happened when I was 18 years old. Now it seems like a mistake. But at that age I don't think anybody thinks of that way to forward. But I had it in my mind and I always used to think that my parents mindset will change when I come to the age of marriage. But time goes so fast.
School ka pyaar yaa college ka just asking? I would advise you to ask your parents it's generally good to marry in different caste for better genetically strong generation. You can tell all these things they will understand.
What were you doing the last 6 years if you didn’t prepare them for this? You never showed at home you were a rebel?
It isn’t for the weak hearted my guy
Just tell both the parents about your relationship. And if they don't agree just get married and always be available to your parents financially and all other aspects.
Finally you and your relationship should be good to progress in life.
Without good love life. Whatever you achieve is void.
Parents will accept will after certain years. They don't let you go. Because they are your parents and they love you and you should also give back love and affection as they are getting old. But you love also important
At the end ....Ishq karo toh dusre caste ki ladki se .....aur shaadi karo khud ke caste se.
6 years and you didn't know ??
Just aak ur parents, what is more important, ur happiness or their status in society l, which btw is kind of vanity if it can’t keep ur own child happy
Have the conversation, there is no other way.
U just said it bro