I am 32 years old and I am searching for life partner in online matrimonial sites.
I am deeply saddened to hear from most of the girls that they want their partner to contribute equally to the household chores and cooking. That’s still not much of a problem but it is that the female partner believes that if she does one hour work, she expects that the boy also does one hour work.
Is this a big point to ponder upon? I have been relying on househelp for cooking etc, and I am afraid about being pressurised by partner to help her in cooking if at all and whenever she cooks. Please advise.
This app is going down the drain already. Typical Indian dude cribbing about having to contribute to cooking food that he will also be chomping on. Do better, man. Grow up.
He's saying he relies on a cook. Why should he cook if he doesn't want to? Why is a girl forcing him to help cook if she wants to cook? Don't cook at all!
@BeaSmith- Then why are you still on this app? Typical mindset of shitty guys who shit on everything while eating their own shit at the same time. 🙌🏻 Grow up, do something better. Please. 😂
Poor you, all the comments just display a lack of comprehension, I think. I'm assuming you asked about being forced to help to cook, whereas you'd be prefer to rely on a cook, no? All the commenters on this thread are a bunch of dimwits, ignore them. Keep searching, I'm sure you'll find someone reasonable.
Gotta help the wife to cook. It's a reasonable dude.
I never expect my partner to cook. I can afford a cook myself. Moreover, there are several food delivery options and eateries everywhere. Point is, when a girl cooks, on her own will, she has the expectation that the male partner will contribute to cooking or some chores as well. I never asked her to cook. This is the discomfort I am referring to. I completely understand and empathise that it might be difficult for a working couple to find out time for household chores.
@AmbitiousChap you should rephrase your post dude. It is representing very different views than this comment.
Have you considerd marrying the maid itself, seems like only expectation is to get household chores.
He is already married. 😂 Keep this advise for your siblings or your family relatives - it may be super useful for them.
Well sadly me or my family are "too poor" to afford household help, so everyone does all their own work.
unnecessary fyi: just finished cleaning a bathroom, most certainly not everyone is elitist idiot.
Why you think that cooking is only your spouses responsibility? Are you still In 1960s?
Sorry but this is such a retarded question.
@Maverick Please read my post again. If one partner is working and the other isn’t, and there’s a cook and househelp as well, who do you think should take up the responsibility for “managing” the cook and househelp?
This is BS tbh. It’s a shared responsibility mutually agreed on between you and your spouse.
Also where did you mention in your post that the supposed spouse is not working.
Anyways despite that the crux is that these things are easily sorted out if your relationship has respect, trust and understanding. If not - aaj bhindi kyun bani, gobi kyun nahi pe bhi clashes honge
If she is also working a similar job , that's reasonable....
I can understand. 👍🏻
