How to not be needing someone
I never had a gf in my life. Loved lot of girls, asked 2 but was rejected. Still looking for someone, although nothing solid yet.
But now I have grown paranoid of relationships. Now I don't believe if someone will love me back. If I do find someone who shows interest, I feel like they will leave me eventually so I don't go ahead.
I am stuck in a catch 22 situation, I cannot trust someone but I also need someone. I have tried telling myself that I don't need anyone, I should focus on my goals and dreams. And I do focus, but then it comes back to me. I get lovesick and I can't go on. I exercise daily, work on daily tasks, practise for interview as I am planning to switch, play badminton with friends. And still when the day ends, I feel need to hold hands with someone. Don't misunderstand this for loneliness, I love being alone and I prefer to be that most of the time. When I want to have some company, i go eat, play with friends. I have tried finding different cures for this feeling, like exercise, games, friends but nothing has worked out yet.
It's not even sadness, it's just empty void.
How do you get rid of this emotion?
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Don't suppress that emotion forcefully. Accept the fact that it is part of being human, and we might not get everything we want at the time we wish.
So accept instead of running away from it, also there are many more things to do in life.
I do feel better when I tell myself that just because you need it or you want it doesn't mean you will get it
Same pinch bro. I also have no idea what to do 🤷🏻♂️
Ask yourself to trust your partner.. it will work bro
In the same boat buddy. Can't do anything
Find someone. Go out, meet girls. It's not easy. But you have to do it.
Buddy feel better that you are not the only one in such situations