How to make irl friends?

I am 22m , happy with my job in hyderabad. Ever since I graduated from college in delhi and moved to hyd, (and after Covid) i am usually online on discord, and also have dated online 3-4 times and am in an online relationship/situationship rn, (she is from US so we usually hang out in my evening/morning). Apart from that I am pretty shy irl, it's very hard for me to approach people. My coworkers at work are good but it feels weird to consider them friends and ask them to hang outside work as they are all married and older (33+). I usually spend my weekends going to a catcafe or going to movies alone and i feel lonely sometimes. I don't want random ppl as friends like i want some level of vibe match, maybe in humor or interests. I tried hinge/bumble but it's weird and everyone wants to date, even though I select bff or friend options. I imagine myself needing friends just to hang out like get coffee together or go to movies, maybe play something like indoor or outdoor games. But also like slightly emotionally connected so that we can rely on each other if anything bad happens. I don't drink or smoke. What should I do?