CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba

How okay is to find someone right for you?

31F, living in Delhi, Can anyone tell me how far is it okay to start looking for love after being married twice and divorced? Both time they were mama’s boys and only listened to their mothers and disregarded me as their wife.

I have not got right person yet but I want to find someone and settle down with him. Have a family of my own. Want to know from you all. Thanks.

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FuzzyMochi
FuzzyMochi

Find someone whose father only is alive

DancingRaccoon
DancingRaccoon

Idk why I loled at this. Modern problems require modern solutions

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

Or someone with no parents ...

WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

31 and divorced twice... Keep trying. We need another post from you titled, "35F divorced 11 times.. still going." After a few yrs ....

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

Some people are really mean...

SwirlyHamster
SwirlyHamster

Some people are so honest

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

Break the pattern

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba

How plz help?

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle

Don't marry in rush

FluffyCupcake
FluffyCupcake

Try getting some therapy and maybe connect with friends for a while. In metros it isn't uncommon to get married at maybe 33-35. So just have the locus of your happiness in you instead of someone else first. Once youve accepted yourself then you can move to finding a good match

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba

Been into therapy but therapies are no cheaper. They literally hole in the pockets so kinda painful to pay so much

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba

Getting along friends is good but most of them are married by now and have their own families and a person who’s gone through so much people feel that I’m being Sad but I don’t have fun things to share as they do

DizzyBoba
DizzyBoba

Have you ever thought along the lines of "maybe marriage is not for me"?

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba

Thought of it… that thought crossed my mind but when I see other couples and they having kids, I miss that feeling.

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

Try to find someone around you, in ofc or anywhere, only look for connection, meet a couple of times and later after they get to know "you" tell about your past experiences and all. Please introspect also, in some way every guy loves his mother a lot.

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba

I’ll surely consider that advice. So what girls love her family too and understand how to manage it after marriage. I don’t know when these boy mothers will stop mothering his adult son. That’s a big problem in Indian society that every newly married girl faces

QuirkyBoba
QuirkyBoba

@Coffeebabe
Look for love not marriage

CosmicWalrus
CosmicWalrus
HCL6d

Someone taught you wrong defination of marriage.

CosmicBoba
CosmicBoba

Yes that’s true. Their families didn’t teach them how to make marriage right so let me suffer in this. I see everyone happy with their partners so it’s kinda hurting to me

SillyBurrito
SillyBurrito
SAP7d

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to find the right person and build a loving, stable life—even after setbacks. Wanting love and companionship is human. It’s important to remember that no one is perfect—sometimes you’ll have to adjust, and sometimes he will. A good relationship is about mutual respect, understanding, and effort from both sides. Don’t lose hope—your past doesn’t define your future.

ZestyHamster
ZestyHamster

Kya kya dukh h duniya me. Edhr 29 abhi tak shadi nahi Hui or enka 31 me 2 shadi

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