How do you want to be loved and love?

There is no well defined rule book for this but I will just write what I think of it. I just want quiet consistency. Its not about grand gestures, social media captions or loud promises.

Its like I just wish to be chosen on ordinary days not only when I am the last option. I should be understood without having to over-explain stuff. Its kind of someone paying attention to "what I dont say".

Kind of emotional steadiness where you no longer have the fear of losing them out of insecurity. And amidst conflicts, respect should still be there.

I dont want to be perfect but complimentary where mine and their combo make it perfect. Its like somebody who stays when things are not aesthetic.

Just want to be loved like a decision not a mood or better say I dont want to be chased or chase.

PS: "be loved" and "love" are used interchangeably.

I sit with a pen and paper to write my thoughts sometimes... just thought to share here. Its not expected that you like or dislike it but if possible feel free to correct me if you find anything absurd or add which according to you is realistically beautiful.