How do you measure the amount of love you are giving to your partner?
The point is to find a threshold. How do you know that "how much is too much or too less"?
If you are asking this may be this is a sign of too much 😂
No, May be a bit of insecurity or I don't know how to keep a balance of love and ignorance. I have seen my friends.. they know when to ignore and when to talk.. this keeps the thing engaging...
But when you are like always available in the thought that you are doing from your side.. you become the new normal and taken for granted..
I know it's sort of weird in itself...but it just came to my mind
I measure by my actions which are usually overlooked as he doesn’t understand that love language, he understands only his own and probably wishes he had someone with a similar understanding.
Yeah, It's actually important to identify each other's love language. It reminded me of a book "5 love languages" which I started reading recently.
I feel there’s no scale when you're in love with your partner, just do things as long as they enjoy it. If you’re in doubt, just ask... Hey, I want to do this, or hey, do you mind doing this for me, you’ll get your answer.
Also, if the other person fails to reciprocate, you’ll get exhausted and they may feel you’re controlling them. So just watch the signals and communicate clearly.
If you feel the other person or you are burdened by it then its too much...Love naturally does not exhaust you and you radiate it naturally by your behaviour and expressions
