How do you find women to talk to without being considered a creep?
My hobbies sketching, photography, anime voice acting. My general time goes around job and gym, while remaining trying to study I generally watch anime, although recently started looking into current affairs too.
Also looking to expand my knowledge about markets and better finance.
For weekends there is no fix schedule but I do try to travel atleast twice a month to make memories, rest I hustle to get a better job.
My intention - to talk with women, get to know them, make them feel I have no bad intentions and just want to exchange thoughts and become friends.
I do want to find my partner, but for that to happen, I need to talk to women more. I don't smoke or drink, another reason people consider me weird and I do go to parties, but yeah, I am considered a weirdo.
I do talk with women in my office, all are hardworking and mostly all mind their own business without much interaction. General interaction goes hi hello, at the cafeteria Even sometimes playing Table tennis or the PS. I am even asked sometimes if I want to eat together, I have asked the same too.
Male colleagues are chill, I even say yes to the outings and the office plans to make better friends.
In society I say hi to people playing sports and games, greet them warmly, general introductions happen and they do help.
But as per my female friend whom I had known for 10 years said girls consider greetings creep and tbh I don't know what else I can do.
tbh the dating progress is still zero, could be I am at the phase 1 of talking and finding my one. Also could be I don't have a decent disposable income to buy flowers or chocolates for my female friends or even host dinners.
Although my main focus is still becoming strong in my career, earn more, become physically fit, and have a strong intellect. I don't want my future spouse and family to go through any financial hurdles. My cooking is bad though, still on the checklist. I want to become a good husband and a father one day.
That's all guys, thanks.
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Ah....
You seem to be in early twenties , it would be good to focus on yourself . Talking to opposite gender is hard but will become easier with time . Try being friends with them first . A lot of times we loose fascination with things when we understand then and then prefer to wait . Also for what it’s worth if you are a nice guy , the women might approach you . Dating apps is more of a jungle with no rules but you can give it a try :p
You will never see a post like this from a female on any platform whatsoever where she is trying to become a good wife material.. Just thinking why?
I don't know brother, I just want to give my best before quiting.
Oh I see what you're doing... You're trying to find a date on Grapevine.... Good 👍
No brother
Bro has clear goals. But practically it doesn't work that way. It's a journey and not a destination. Majority of boys hit this stage sooner or later in life.
