All the things that one has done so far at times you feel you could have taken different path. Could have studies different subject (AI/ML/Tech?) Could have started something of your own after passing out from college Could have work harder on this which can give disproportionate returns( both personal and professional) Getting married early and investing as early as possible. I try to be grateful for things which I already have (and there are so many) but then there are moments where you feel you could have done better much better actually
Regret is good. Lessons that you remember and help you be and do better. But one shouldn't constantly beat themselves up with regrets. There's always room for redemption.
regrets are okay. but not regretting is worse.
I've come to realise we regret decisions that were made for us and we weren't involved. I don't regret making the mistakes I made knowingly. I don't know if it's just me.
I used to regret a lot then used to go into inaction mode due to stress and disappointment it causes.
Best way to manage it, is write them (events/situation) down somewhere, write learnings/lessons that they could teach and convert them into affirmtive action.
IMO, you can't change what has happened so you have to replace them with something better so that they don't bother you.
Regret is a finality you can't change. Look at it as a mistake instead. You fucked up, fix it. Make your life better.
Philosophy and retrospect is for the finish line, not while you are nowhere close to the end
As Gandhi once said
"Git Gud"
Based on comments Jo career pe focus Kiya use chahiye ladki, aur Jo ladki pe focus Kiya use chahiye career. Grass is ...
Owning a house. I seen the rent and prices double in the last 9 years but salary/savings didn't grow at the same...
Not investing adequately in equity (stocks/mutual funds) and using debt instruments instead (PPF, FD). Being caught u...
It can be anything related to not doing something you always wanted to but never did, a mistake you realize you shouldn’t have made, or feelings of not being successful enough. Feel free to share your thoughts.
Failed to spend enough time with my parents. Life moves really fast. If you're around your parents take care of them,...
prioritised fitness really late, ignored everyone's advise, ate shit food all the time, was smoking and drinking. s...
Not studying hard enough to get education from a good college and Marriage 🤐
My overall education started a bit late than normal people due to my fathers transfers and school admission rules. Consequently when I applied for JEE Advanced back in 2017 i was 19.5 years old. I got it but wasnt satisfied so dropped a...
This quote I read - you will get old irrespective of your masters and PHD degrees too. Might as well be old with them.
There are people who passed out at 23 and started job at 26 because they were preparing for UPSC and couldn’t qualify...
Comparison is the thief of joy. You’re just a late bloomer. Pretty sure there will be huge age range in masters & phd...
It's not restricted to over 30 women. Open to all the women here irrespective of their age.
From career to health, marriage , relationship, travel, goals. #Learn from experiences
Be financially independent. Have your own funds that can last upto 1 year. Keep upskilling , invest money, travel a ...
If he is putting effort, stick with him, don't hoeee around
Live away from your family. Travel, see the world.
