SleepyCupcake
SleepyCupcake

How do you date in Bangalore? As someone who is considered good looking, women have approached me irl but only for hookups unfortunately.

I’ve (28M) used hinge previously and have received tons of matches, almost a 1000 but half of the conversations went no where, half of the dates went no where and women were mostly looking to hookup which I’m not into. It feels sad that nowadays nobody is looking to form genuine connections and meaningful relationships and honestly as a guy I feel lowkey used.

Those who have successfully met their SO, how did you guys meet?

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QuirkyWalrus
QuirkyWalrus

Some people drown while others die of thirst

GigglyCoconut
GigglyCoconut
EY17h

Have never really used dating apps nor had dating experience, but reading posts here makes me feel like staying single is fun and peaceful.

Haven’t seen any genuine relationships around mostly either toxic or just time-pass.

At this point, I’d rather not drain my energy and just enjoy life with friends.

SleepyCupcake
SleepyCupcake
SAP17h

But isn’t being in a relationship fulfilling? You don’t like being with a guy?

GroovyBanana
GroovyBanana

Hookup is best...

DizzyBoba
DizzyBoba

How are you not scared of fake 🍇 case against you

QuirkyWaffle
QuirkyWaffle

What about STDs?

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Yes, ppl are more interested in a good looking personality, that's for sure

SleepyCupcake
SleepyCupcake
SAP17h

I feel that the places I’ve been looking for were the wrong places

SleepyCupcake
SleepyCupcake
SAP17h

I’ve dated long term before but unfortunately Bangalore is not for that

MagicalPenguin
MagicalPenguin

Proud of you that you think like that. Hook-up culture is so sad. Same feeling from my side for men.

GoofyNugget
GoofyNugget

Same feeling I don't support hookup ...i only support gym and foood 🥲

JazzyNugget
JazzyNugget

Never expected big pharma employees here damn

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

Going to hinge looking for a genuine connection is going to the toilet looking for a healthy dinner.

You are in BLR, if india population is 130cr. 50 cr is in BLR. Look at your apartment, your office, your friends location, their office, .. if nothing works, host a party and invite your "target friends"....

BouncyNugget
BouncyNugget

I have never used these apps but I totally agree with the emotion shared in this post. This is not gender specific. I'm surprised at the rate of folks looking for casual relationships.

I'm not looking for a relationship as genuine connections seems to be a myth these days.

MagicalKoala
MagicalKoala

Another day of things that never happened 😂

SleepyCupcake
SleepyCupcake
SAP12h

Sure my guy. Good way to cope

SillyBoba
SillyBoba

I means "banda tu dikhta acha h.. but dil se acha nhi h"... and reread by replacing "banda" with "bandi"

SillyBoba
SillyBoba

Mean*

SnoozyPanda
SnoozyPanda

Oh no, my lobster is too buttery and my steak is too juicy.

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