Hii Bengaluru
I wanted to share what I feel today . It's been around a year since I moved to Bengaluru for work. I'm female (24). I am an introvert person who finds it difficult to interact with people due to which I have no friends here. It feels so lonely when you have no one to talk with or hangout with. My life is becoming boring day by day. I miss my home to much. Nothing seems to work for me staying here. Feels like I'm not doing good with myself no friends no good career everything seems to go downhill.
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The reason is we don't socialise or trust our colleagues and never try to do so. So the chain goes on and everyone feels lonely. I have been in Bangalore for almost 2 years and felt the same as you, but then I realised nobody was going to come to me and make my first approach to be good friends. It's you have to start it first and then they contribute.
It's a beautiful city believe me ❤️ it's the thing you just have to go first 😅.
As of today's human nature everybody feels themselves as a victim and others as accused. Try to look inside and then your thoughts will change about others. It's not a religious line or some wisdom thoughts 😅, it's reality. And don't stop looking for good friends even though you got some crackhead colleagues 😂.
Sometimes you don’t get good colleagues. As the colleagues I got are rude, they don’t want to interact and always act like boss being at same level. They don’t even prefer talking in English most of their conversation goes in mother tongue like kannada or other language they speak I’m not aware about. These people always trying to highlight your mistakes. They make decisions on their own and just instruct me as if I’m there to follow their orders. They have issues with every damn thing you do. And I tried highlighting this with the manager two or three times but I can’t go on complaining about the same thing daily. I literally got the worst colleagues here.
Talk to your college friends or school friends at times. You will feel better. Have good food, list down your goals and do out of the comfort zone things to achieve those goals. Trust me you will start feeling better. Go for running once a day. If you like watching movies, go to cinema hall by yourself , your 3 hr will automatically be occupied by that.
Go to gym, if you don't make friends there then atleast you will burn calories
Find hobbies, it might help you with alternative career path as well as making friends
Same, it's been a month in bangalore, sunday seems to be longer than 24 hours coz I don't hai anything to do except eat, watch some TV shows and sleep
Wanna eat home made fried rice?
No worries dear I am to victim of this😄😄😄
Just try to visit good place as solo make urself busy in work...do video call with family
And done you will be learn how to live solo/alone.
hii @Glam same here...i too feel the same. go to your hometown more frequently, you will feel better! you can connect with me if you feel like talking...