GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

Help: Navigating a dilemma!

There's someone in GV I've secretly developed a crush on. I've been quietly following her posts and comments, and I’ve noticed she has this unique mix of being goofy and bubbly, yet also mature and deeply empathetic. Those qualities really stood out to me and made her beautiful in my eyes. I'm pretty sure she's just as beautiful in real life, too. I'm torn about whether I should tell her or not—part of me really wants to, but I’m scared of what might happen if I do!

28d ago
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GigglyPickle
GigglyPickle
TCS28d

Simp

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

What was being simp in this? Isn’t it normal to like someone?

SnoozyHamster
SnoozyHamster

It isn't wrong to admire someone!

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Just yesterday I got to know she is married, heartbroken 💔 😔

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

I don’t know if she is married or not but she did post something about office crush, so might be single!

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

@BiryaniEnthu ye comment was bouncer…

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

There is nothing wrong in appreciating someone at the first place as long as the intent is pure. Since, you mentioned, you have been observing someone so I feel it’s harmless. But yeah, once you decide to tell her and she responds and not react, you should be good :)

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

It feels like the whole GV community conspired to do what I might never have had the courage to do myself. I wasn’t aware of your marital status, but that doesn’t change the admiration I have for you as a person. I truly hope you continue to shine with your bubbly spirit and go on to achieve everything you’ve ever dreamed of.
– A Genuine Admirer

PS: How did you guys know it was her?? @BiryaniEnthu @Aragorn_urf_Maverick @PookieA

BubblyPotato
BubblyPotato

Jo me soch rhi ki vahi hai, toh vo married hi hai😂😂😂

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

Who?

FuzzyMochi
FuzzyMochi

@PenguinLove Tag hi kar de bro.. open confessions 😃 there is nothing wrong in sharing your true feelings..bas itna confirm kar lena ki wo already married na ho🤣🤣

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

What if she gets offended?

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

If you can’t decide, the answer is No

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

How? I mean I am yet to come to conclusion. Also, I don’t know if she is married or not. It won’t matter in either cases. I just have genuine appreciation for her😊

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

delusional

SnoozyHamster
SnoozyHamster

Tell her! What's the most that can happen - she is married lol

And you are just following her online and it's anonymous sooo

Tell us the tea later on how it goes

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

Thanks bro. Yup🙇‍♂️

DerpyPancake
DerpyPancake

How do you know it's a she?

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

I have been following her posts and comments😎

SparklyPickle
SparklyPickle
TCS27d

She is there in ur office?

GigglyWalrus
GigglyWalrus

Stfu.

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

I won’t lower myself to that level. If you want to talk, do it like an adult.

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