WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato

Help me validate my 'Dream man' list

Disclaimer: I am not looking for any man, just want to confirm I am not delusional and can find such a person with all these qualities

So, I was talking about the list and my friends laughed that I can't find one person who has all of these Here's it, for your review

  1. Can cook (proper cooking, not maggi)
  2. Can keep house clean (not mopping, just generally not throwing stuff around or leaving things and forgetting about them)
  3. Can take care of himself (doesn't need to be babysit)
  4. not a mumma's boy (you can love your mom but not run to her for everything)
  5. Loves Bollywood (I like bollywood)
  6. Loves cricket (I don't understand sports other than cricket)
  7. Loves tea (I am tea > coffee person)
  8. Is not an early bird (I cannot have ball of energy jumping around early morning)
  9. understands Finance and investing better than regular people (because important)
  10. Taller than me, that's a given thing (I'm 5'8")
  11. Be decent funny but not make crass jokes on others (I think that's basic)
  12. Most importantly, not want kids. I don't want them biological or test tubes or adoption

You have to answer if these are can be one-man possibility Do not come back with "What do you bring to the table?" 😒

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WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

i guess you are below 25

anyway, slowly-slowly all these requirements will start to vanish

and you'll realise most of these things don't matter, it will take you time to understand what really matters

till then just date around

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

and don't look for guy who is exactly like you, find someone who complements your qualities

i.e find the guy opposite to you in many scenarios, but without friction

WigglyRaccoon
WigglyRaccoon

Yes perfect. Well said

GroovyCupcake
GroovyCupcake

1,2,6,7,8,12 are lame tbh

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio9mo

Well, thanks for your opinion. Didn't ask for this though

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

@Pillowcase you literally asked

PeppySushi
PeppySushi

Agar me abhi "my dream girl" ka list dalunga toh bawaal ho jaygea.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio9mo

Arey dalo Kon judge kar raha hai All men will be there to support you, will even agree 😂😂

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus
Student9mo

Yeh vivaad fir kbhi

SqueakyQuokka
SqueakyQuokka

Assuming with each criteria you reduce your pool by 50%, and if you start with a pool of 10,000, you would be left with 2 guys who satisfy all conditions.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio9mo

So the answer is Yes, there is a one-man possibility 😅

SqueakyQuokka
SqueakyQuokka

The question is - do you have a pool of 10000? 😉

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

If you get 60-70% of it then it's enough. There must be a few deal breakers out of all. Which ones?

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio9mo

Nice question, I didn't think of it like that 1, 3, 10, 12 would be the ones

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

Worry about Ten Hag 🤡

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

Lol, sorry but it's a stupid list. If someone is all rounder, like me, knows all household work, cooks properly, he has to be an early bird. Otherwise you cannot do those stuffs and at the same time maintain your physique. I miss, 8,10 and 12 btw. wish you good luck

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio9mo

I didn't ask for physique? I'm okay being chubby together What is all household work? It is necessary life skill

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

Cooking, cleaning, maintaining home, etc

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

Being firm on point number 12 might significantly reduce your potential options, possibly by around 95%.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio9mo

You mean there is 5% that is out there

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

Don't get your hopes too high. Usme se 3.5 taka nikal lo. The average Indian height is 5'7.

GoofyDonut
GoofyDonut

11/12
umm nice score 😎

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio9mo

What did you miss?

GoofyDonut
GoofyDonut

point 1, cooking 🥘
though already working on it - thanks to my cook taking a lot of holidays

Let me be real here- So the guy should

  1. Cook
  2. Clean
  3. Manage finances
  4. Not listen to mum and listen to you
  5. Be funny
  6. Be tall
  7. Not expect kids

And they wonder why modern marriages are failing apart? Let me mansplain here - if you don't also bring all of these to the table then - a. You won't find a dude. b. You find a dude and he is miserable for the rest of his life.

We are stupid. But not that stupid.

PrancingNugget
PrancingNugget

Intelligent men don't like Bollywood, that's it.

PrancingNugget
PrancingNugget

Specially the typical karan johar drama

Tho we can exclude Anurag Kashyap gang

SleepyBurrito
SleepyBurrito

The checklist seems to be put together in 10 minutes and misses out on level 2 thinking.

Relationships are not purely on X Y Z characteristics but how you react to life situations, which showcases priorities. Job in a different city. Parent falls ill. Major joint expense. What will you do? How will you prioritise your partner and how much will you compromise.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio9mo

That are situation based You do not get into marriage or relationship thinking the worse of things

JazzyPenguin
JazzyPenguin
Cred9mo

You should.

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