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CosmicDonut
Healing from Heartbreak: Ready to Find Love Again
Lately, my heart has been aching. The girl I loved deeply—my first love, my partner for five years—left me to marry an NRI. When I asked her why, she said she always dreamed of settling in Canada, and since I had no such plans, her parents arranged a quick wedding. Just like that, she flew away with her new husband, leaving me behind with nothing but memories.
Now, I find myself feeling lost and lonely. She was my world, and moving on feels overwhelming. I want to open my heart again, to find someone who truly cares for me. But I don’t know where to start—I’ve always been shy, and approaching someone new feels daunting. I just need a little help to take that first step toward love again.
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GroovyCupcake
Stealth4mo
@CharmingCalmMan is this u? When i read the post remembered u 😂 @i_m_code life is a wheel. It moves. Take it as it comes. I hv no suggestions on how to find someone in life cause m not dating app person. I believe things happen when it has to.
QuirkyCupcake
Infosys4mo
Why do you wanna make the same mistake again
CosmicDonut
EY4mo
Just because it didn’t work out once doesn’t mean it never will. I’d rather learn from the past than close myself off to new possibilities.
CosmicWaffle
EY3mo
My suggestion would be to try being alone for a period of time take this as an opportunity and get to know yourself better. Once you start understanding yourself you'll find someone and be able to decide better. Enjoy Man!
GigglyQuokka
Stealth4mo
I'm a very shy person myself, i cannot approach anyone women. How did you met your gf?, it would be of much help for shy guys like me
CosmicDonut
EY4mo
@SoggyBasil4 We worked for different companies but shared the same co-working space, sitting across from each other every day. We never spoke, only exchanging polite smiles.
One day, I overheard her talking about a web series. I couldn’t resist joining in and said, That’s one of my favorites!. She looked up, surprised, and asked, Really? Who’s your favorite character?
That small conversation turned into longer ones. We discovered we had so much in common. Coffee breaks became the highlight of my day, and soon, seeing her became something I looked forward to. From there, everything just fell into place naturally.
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Delete all social media apps on phone, log out of devices. And get shit done. You got a 99 problems, but a lost pa...
heartbreaks over breakup is the most overrated thing. maybe too much TV is the reason for this new nonsense.