Have your looks stopped you back from doing things you like?
I had to go to school so i went there. Then i thought people will judge me for my looks i started avoiding public functions family functions even my cousin sister's marriage i avoided. I have an issue with my jaw which is underdeveloped, it is true but nobody said me anything as well because I'm overly fair according to Indian standards. So coming to topic i don't go to gym because I fear people might look at face and judge me. My mind is always in an alert mode to sense if I'm outside and people are becoming awkward due to my face or not. A bubbly person soon started becoming the most quiet person. I have a skill that i can talk to anyone but then i burried it too due to this reason. I never went to a cafe too because girls who are very good looking come there, I think what will such an elegant girl think of me, i don't want to spoil anyone's mood just by my presence.
Forgot to live life. I was into cycling and badminton so I wanted to go for long distance cycling burried it because of my looks. I somehow gather courage to play badminton but then also i have to force my mind to be on alert mode there.
Today I was parking my car and I saw a guy from my office, he was shocked and looked through me in a surprising manner, like kinda this guy has a car, I don't know what do I do honestly man, what is my fault.
Also i just keep quiet so that people don't judge me and i never interacted with women too, lol I'm so good at hiding that no one knows about this irl. But deep down I'm burning and i compare how bad my looks are not symmetrical, cheeks puffy even tho I'm skinny. My cheeks look puffy due to poor jaw and narrow palate. I wanted to go for trips, ignored that too. Basically avoided every place where people are present not because of i cannot talk or don't know how to interact but because of how i look. I'm good at communication as I said but then it is what it is. Chat gpt said you need healing now, that will come from validation which I never got, I still doubt if i can be loved by any girl or not.
U need some help bud.. go get... Demons in ur head has overpowered u ..
Practically people don't look at others with a microscope. IMO you're overthinking. Just do things.
You're overthinking a lot.... Just do whatever you like. You cannot control what others think of you. But you can control what you're thinking and doing about yourself. Do things which make you happy.... Ignore those people....
Fuck people. They judge everyone. They think they are the best. No one world is perfect nor best.. looks matters. But if you have enough money.focus on earnings and have mental peace.
Whoever saw and give cheap look at you. Earn money and showcase that you have money.Look them back the same way looked at you..
Women even if you give whole gold or any expensive item still they find fault.
Just think of mukesh ambani younger son. He has obesity due some health issues.not judging though.
He got money he is enjoying, married a pretty girl. I heard even in Dubai people with less attractiveness had a good life.
Stop having social anxiety.
