WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato

Guys, why can't you answer more than one question at a time?

I've noticed that the men in my life (boyfriend, brother, male friends), seems to handle one question at a time. When I text them multiple questions, they usually only answer the last one. The second last gets completely ignored.

My female friends don't seem to have this problem.

Why do men do this? I'm genuinely curious!

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SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

I don't know about brother or male friends but if a guy is really, really into you, he will reply to every damn thing.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio10mo

Okay he is not really, really into me. Thank you for the reality check πŸ₯²

JumpyPretzel
JumpyPretzel

Those guys you are chatting with, just don’t care for you, or what you think. They reply just for the sake of it. I always reply to all questions.
Usually guys reply with twice the intensity, if they are really interested. If not, what you wrote, is what they may do.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio10mo

Divorcing my brother tomorrow! What is this behaviour πŸ˜‚

GroovyWaffle
GroovyWaffle

It’s not a gender thing. Only people who care about you as much would answer multiple questions at once. And pretty stupid and entitled to just shoot the questions at the other person. Have some empathy, have some patience, decency to ask one question at a time.

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

I've seen the same behaviour in women as well haha

I guess it's more to do with answering the most relevant/important question

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio10mo

What I have got from the thread, apparently the other person is not interested enough

GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba

We have more single core processing than multi core processing.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio10mo

@Elon_Musk @courageousDev are you guys the same person πŸ˜‚

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka

I must say Men talks are more practical with versatile dynamics.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio10mo

What do you mean by versatile dynamics?

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget

try to phase the question in a subtle way so it doesn't seem like a question.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio10mo

Play with their minds πŸ˜‚

PrancingNarwhal
PrancingNarwhal
Meesho10mo

I've experienced it the other way round too

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio10mo

Sorry to break it to you, she is not into you 🫠 or maybe busy

GoofyTaco
GoofyTaco

Being a man myself, I think its about answering one question extremely well. Also I kind of disagree with the premise but I will indulge for the sake of conversation. Most men also tend to be realists which weighs in on the fact that we would rather think well and answer extensively than talk quick and misinform. I have been asked the same by my gf before but I could never pinpoint the reason; also, I dont think Its difficult to answer multiple questions at once.

WigglyPotato
WigglyPotato
Jio10mo

Listen to your gf, answer all questions no matter how silly

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

I guess it depends on medium, I don't even open text messages may that be on any app. But on call or in person I will give you a proper detailed answer as if I am handing over sop verbally

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