WigglyRaccoon

Guilty of getting married

I am a female and I will be marrying next year and the preparations have started.

Amidst all this, I am feeling guilty. A part of me feels I shouldnt get married and take care of my parents instead. I am not able to enjoy any preps and it feels I dont deserve to get married.

Married folks, any advice?

6mo ago

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FluffyBagel

PWC6mo

Do you like your fiance or it's just a transactional setting? Have you talked to him about your feelings and how you want to take care of your parents? Is he supportive? I would suggest that you get clarity on these questions before you take further steps.

WigglyRaccoon

MetLife6mo

I dont have an issue with my fiance. He is very supportive. I just dont want to leave my parents' house. I feel like my happiness is not important then them

FluffyBagel

PWC6mo

What if I told you that your parents happiness lies in your happiness. If they are typical Indian parents they would never want you to be unmarried just to take care of them. Now coming to the real issue, you want to take care of your parents, I have already posted an article on it, I will share it with you. I hope it will help.

CosmicDumpling

InMobi6mo

Doesn't everyone get married AND take care of parents. Also, no need to be guilty. A keeping them in a blossoming family is the best thing to happen in their old age.

CosmicDumpling

InMobi6mo

P.S. People usually feel guilty about not getting married

GigglyQuokka

Stealth6mo

If your marriage is already fixed why are you being like that. Just enjoy and cherish this time. If you will remain like this things will spoil and go out of your hand sooner than u can imagine.

SwirlyPanda

Cognizant6mo

If you are single child then convince your fiance that you can’t leave your parents alone if not single child then think about their happiness seeing you married