Guidelines for marriage

I collected this information based speaking with victims of false 498a on different social media platform. I also researched r/legaladviceindia, quora, etc for this compilation of list.

See it as arranged marriage best practices of marrying Indian woman.

1. Avoid single children daughter. An elder brother is good or any brothers. Having brother helps her to understand men's issues and men's temperament.

2. If woman's father is politically connected, lawyer, police, or some high position, they will show who is the boss. Most of 498a are initiated because woman's father asked her to do.

3. if the woman's mother is the head of the family and the mother disrespects her husband, avoid the family. Because the woman is very much influenced by her mother after marriage. The mother is going to teach the same to her daughter. You do not take that risk.

4. She is an attention seeking person. Run. She will do anything for spotlight including filing false 498a and get some limelight from friends and relatives.

5. Don't take dowry. If she asks you money for her mom, dad, or her bro, reject her.

6. Carefully observe, how she treats others. If she does not treat service workers respectfully but treat you well, she is not a good person.

7. If she accidentally discloses that she is struggling with depression and other mental health problem, avoid her. If anything happens to her after marriage due to her mental health condition, you would go to prison. As Robert Greene said, "avoid unlucky and unhappy people. There is no reversal to this law". You cant fix broken people. Don't waste your life trying to do that.

8. A woman who hates her father. This is a big NO NO.

9. Liars and dishonest people. If you find a small lie prior to marriage, I say run. Because what you found is a small lie. What you did not find is more than that.

10. If she says she does not how to cook, get rid of her. Cooking is a necessary skill. Both men and women should know. She did not put any effor