SparklyPanda
SparklyPanda
20mo
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Grapevine is one more place which lets men (not all men i know) cry

About women, reservations, DEI, women driving car, women marrying the rich men, women working, women not working, women existing.

What is your problem? That you are a privileged (obviously not all), favoured gender who has the most representation in govt., workforce and population, grapevine and even most religions.

Are all your problems 100% because of reserved category, women? Not because you may not be lucky, smart, hardworking, woman, random, reserved category?

Everyone thinks they have it difficult. So please stop this rant/ crying on these platforms.

20mo ago
SparklyPanda
SparklyPanda
20mo

And at the end of the day, most men want to marry a woman

Then why so much hate?

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

I have not seen any hate posts towards women. What are you talking about ?

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
20mo

Yes, mind sharing link of such posts?

PerkyWaffle
PerkyWaffle

Oh, absolutely! As a man, my life is just perfect. All my problems must be because women drive cars, marry rich men, or exist. It couldn't be the job market, high costs, or plain bad luck, right?

I mean, who wouldn't love the constant pressure to succeed, never show vulnerability, and always be the "tough guy"? It's a dream come true! And let's not forget being told to "man up" whenever I feel stressed or overwhelmed. Pure joy!

Thanks for the reminder to keep my feelings to myself. Who needs open dialogue and mutual understanding when we can just blame each other? Life's a breeze with all this privilege!!

Idk what made you say there is "hate".....or yeah we can just keep assuming the worst about each other?

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

If you don't let people express their thoughts and opinions (no matter how right or wrong you think they are), it goes against the principle of free speech.

Unless you favour censorship, your post doesn't really make sense.

SparklyPanda
SparklyPanda
20mo

Then pls apply the same logic that the above post is my opinion however wrong it may be

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

I'm not the one telling people to keep their opinions to themselves :)

How else would anyone know if they're right or wrong unless others can give them feedback?

Hope you also take the feedback you received in the comments and maybe change your approach

GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba

Lady I ain't sexiest, I complain about morons irrespective of gender.
I believe in equal rights and lefts in the face for all idiots out there irrespective of gender, race or caste.

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka
20mo

🤭🤭

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BubblyCupcake
BubblyCupcake

😂

SparklyPanda
SparklyPanda
20mo

Everyone asking for the links, pls do it yourself.

Just in the feed below this post, I see at least handful of posts.

JazzyNarwhal
JazzyNarwhal

Below this post, I see a guy, asking for gift suggestions for his sister, which I found as sweet, and cute.

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

yeah even i did not see any hate posts below. There might be some hate or vile comments here and there but that's just sm.

DerpyBagel
DerpyBagel

Women ☕

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SparklyPanda
SparklyPanda
20mo

So basically here, men can post derogatory posts on women that's opinion and free speech when the tables are turned it's not free speech 🙄

Agar mere vichaar khatak rhe h ignore karo

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle
20mo

Cry harder.

GroovyWaffle
GroovyWaffle

Seems like you don’t like being blamed/involved in rants from others on account of your gender. You never did anything and yet there are rants in your general direction, being blamed cos of your gender you didn’t choose, societal actions you didn’t advocate for and so on.

You should deal with it the way world deals w it. That is ignore it. Generic statements feel like an attack, but they aren’t and very specific to the posters’ lived experiences where presumably you don’t feature. Just that being generic gets them the added attention they are looking for. (Another is to start a hashtag similar to’not all men’ but that’s a longer discussion)

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