Get married when it's right for you and your partner
And not at a fixed age just due to societal pressure or people on Twitter
Biology cannot wait, especially for women. It doesn't understand your inheritance, success...etc. Also you want to be a mother and father to your kids, not as grandparents. The right time never comes, you anyway will start if you have to finish.
Of course this is a different thought process, no need to agree though.
I agree that biology can't wait however I have also seen the cases where people are not getting separated just because they have had a child together. (In 2025)
Imagine how traumatizing it would be for that child.
So yes if one can marry early and right nothing like it.
But early and wrong can be detrimental.
I don't know. I always think best time to marry is when you are doing ok and not great and should be able handle expenses of two people. Being great takes time and is always relative every day you think of pushing more
At the end, you will be handling expenses of two people
But you also are two people for each other problems
You both could share your emotions
Less distraction of outer world, in a sense you are getting attracted to every other person you are talking to
I agree being great takes time.
But most of the people these days are looking for partners who are already great and not those who are work in progress, doing ok and have the potential to be great.
Growing together is a different mindset and true partnership I believe.
Marriage is a society and economic requirement- not yours! I would learn to love first before thinking of marriage. Your earnings tag along and shouldn't be a criteria for marriage. If you want just sex, there are many places offering it, but don't burn-down your life just to satisfy the egos of other people.
Exactly my view on marriage and i always feel like kids are expensive.. first 5 years it's really cute and fun after that you can't give them the best life until you have a good savings
Yes we should be financially stable enough to give our kid(s) a good life.
