
Genuine advice on marriage proposal
I recently joined Mastercard and working as SSE 30 Years old , I am above average looking guy , I got a proposal of marriage from a girl who cracked upsc and is going to join soon as assistant income tax commissioner [IRS- IT] , she is average looking girl , my friends say I might get better in terms of looks. But I am unable to take my mind off as I think her job has significant respect , dignity and stability. She is okay with me and is positive . The bowl is in my court . Any personel suggestion/Leads are appreciated.

Take a paper and keep heading gut and mind. List what you gut saying and mind. Ask
- if you are just for her job or you have feelings for her.
- Keep money, dignity,respect everything aside. Is she compatible or not and ask her feelings
- Try to analyse what you want in your partner does she fits into it ? 4)Just check her background in any relationship or not - lot of things happening around the world.
If you want respect, dignity, stability, not looks, who cares and understands you go for her. No second thought. - first thing getting upsc girl proposal is not easy.
Upsc guys marry upsc guys. Doc marries doc most of the time.

All the best

Yes she doesn’t want a guy from services. She is preparing again now for IAS . As that’s her target. But for now she is getting posted in Pune itself as asst IT comm. So I think that’s fair enough. Marriage has mostly became a place of adjustments these days.