ZoomyPanda
ZoomyPanda
7mo

Genuine advice on marriage proposal

I recently joined Mastercard and working as SSE 30 Years old , I am above average looking guy , I got a proposal of marriage from a girl who cracked upsc and is going to join soon as assistant income tax commissioner [IRS- IT] , she is average looking girl , my friends say I might get better in terms of looks. But I am unable to take my mind off as I think her job has significant respect , dignity and stability. She is okay with me and is positive . The bowl is in my court . Any personel suggestion/Leads are appreciated.

7mo ago
PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

Take a paper and keep heading gut and mind. List what you gut saying and mind. Ask

  1. if you are just for her job or you have feelings for her.
  2. Keep money, dignity,respect everything aside. Is she compatible or not and ask her feelings
  3. Try to analyse what you want in your partner does she fits into it ? 4)Just check her background in any relationship or not - lot of things happening around the world.

If you want respect, dignity, stability, not looks, who cares and understands you go for her. No second thought. - first thing getting upsc girl proposal is not easy.

Upsc guys marry upsc guys. Doc marries doc most of the time.

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

All the best

ZoomyPanda
ZoomyPanda

Yes she doesn’t want a guy from services. She is preparing again now for IAS . As that’s her target. But for now she is getting posted in Pune itself as asst IT comm. So I think that’s fair enough. Marriage has mostly became a place of adjustments these days.

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