SparklyDumpling
SparklyDumpling

Friendship between young boy and adult women

One of my female friend recently got in touch with a young guy. Age difference is about 10-15 yrs. Both are currently single boy being about around ~25. Both re enjoying each other's company and conversations. While the girl has a troubled past (divorced) the boy is actively looking for marriage prospects. GV community - what are your tips for the female friend and things she should keep in consideration. Would be keen to hear the guys' perspective as well especially how you deal with relationship vs friendship with older women

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WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

she wants to ruin one more home ?

SparklyDumpling
SparklyDumpling

It's not funny. I know that she tried hard to save her marriage. And in this case both are quite mature and way above adult age.

SqueakyKoala
SqueakyKoala

Divorced so she ruined homes? God no wonder why Indians are still 200 years behind in mindset

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Honestly if I would be there, I would think 10 times before falling for an elderly women. But if I do I gonna make it work. That guy may be here for money, or for good time, or love. The point is she has 3 choices - she can be positive or she can test him in different ways, or she can just enjoy with him (and if future is there then she can enjoy being together as well)

But honestly I would love such a women 😭

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Somebody get me an elderly women who loves meee like helllll😭😭😭 and can do anything for me and then also flaunt me. And then also get jealous and possessive 😭I want such a woman.

ZestySushi
ZestySushi

😝😝😝

GigglyBagel
GigglyBagel
Swiggy12mo

But ofcourse you are asking for a friend :p

SparklyDumpling
SparklyDumpling

Lol

TwirlyWalrus
TwirlyWalrus

😉

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito

Idk how to react on this. I've only one line for this

Ramchandra keh gaye siya se, aisa kalyug aaega < ADD YOUR LINE HERE >

SqueakyKoala
SqueakyKoala

If both are enjoying being with one another for whatever reason, who are we to judge their age, relationship or whatever. Its their life and other people opinion is not needed, people should try and solve or improve their own lives, before sharing unsolicited advice 🙏🏻

SparklyDumpling
SparklyDumpling

Well said.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys12mo

Respect dude! Finally a sane comment! ❤️

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys12mo

At this point, it's friendship, it's great if both enjoy each other's company. At the end of the day, people are social animals, we want people around us who understand us! Being divorced certainly comes with it's challenges and if you find someone regardless of their age to be close to and share your day and all problems and everything, nothing better than that! Kudos to them for finding each other❤️ Now, if they want to take it forward, be it anything, there's literally nothing we have to say here, they should sit together and talk it out on what they want out of the relationship. As long as both are fine with what's decided, they should just go with it! Although, our society is so nagging in terms of

  1. Thinking of divorced women in a bad light as a person who's devoid of further happiness
  2. Age difference in relationship as an issue

I believe it's gonna be more difficult for the woman to handle this societal thing and would suggest her to be strong and take on the society if that's what it takes to be with someone for her happiness!

TwirlyMochi
TwirlyMochi

Is it just me or does this “asking for a friend” feel like a cover 😛😂

SparklyDumpling
SparklyDumpling

Lol.. Intentions are clear.

PerkyPanda
PerkyPanda

I suspect guy's decision of marriage (25 ka h ye ladka)

SqueakyPancake
SqueakyPancake
Swiggy12mo

Shuggaaa mommy

ZippyBiscuit
ZippyBiscuit

It's okay till it's a platonic relationship.I hope the boy does not marry her. His life could go on to be full of regrets.

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