SwirlyJellybean
SwirlyJellybean

Focus on earning money!

A well settled career and a high paying job is everything. Its your real partner. After seeing so many posts on GV, I have realised people are just gold diggers irrespective of the gender. Love totally depends on your luck, don't waste your time searching for it..earn enough money to have the life you want for yourself, rest will follow.

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PerkyWaffle
PerkyWaffle

True, financial stability is important alizeh but love, trust, and meaningful connections like ayan (movie reference) can't be bought.....balance is all u need. Chase success/money, but don’t shut the door on genuine relationships.

SwirlyJellybean
SwirlyJellybean

understood, but finding genuine connection is totally based on luck, and this love/marriage also is a gamble, so better not waste time worrying about it, only thing we should worry about is what we can control, that's basically our personal life and opinions. In relationships we have to deal with another person and things might not go as planned...so better focus only on what is in our control

SwirlyJellybean
SwirlyJellybean

and Alizeh left Ayan even if he loved her the most coz relationships work two way

DerpyBurrito
DerpyBurrito

Too pessimistic and warped view..earning money will exactly attract the gold diggers that you want to avoid

BubblyPotato
BubblyPotato

Stay poor, stay happy 😂

SwirlyJellybean
SwirlyJellybean

😂 atleast we can avoid the gold diggers and live peacefully on our own. This post is not about accumulating wealth, its about worrying about what really matters in life, everything else just comes along.

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

there are good people, there are bad people. Money is for ones living. Its not a reflection of what we get. (not what we buy). Beyond a certain level, How we interact with others/what kind of people we deal with depends on us.

ZippySushi
ZippySushi

Maybe you still haven't come across people who prefer peace of mind over earning high amount of money. Also what's the use of that high amount if it is affecting you mentally and is not giving you time to explore and travel the world ?

FuzzyMochi
FuzzyMochi

Wow...what a post!!! 👌

PerkyNarwhal
PerkyNarwhal

Everyone is looking for best option. Might be as of now you are the the best option for someone… but after some time they will find other better options. People dont want to stay with one, they keep searching for best.

GoofyBiscuit
GoofyBiscuit

OK bro 👍

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