Finding lifelong friend...
Why its said that whosoever is suitable for you or made for you will eventually meet you. I mean its true in one sense and it doesnt mean you just stop your search.
Im 26M, it feels like excited to get married and explore the things together and roaming around places and lot more other things which I have planned...as we will be having enough time.
But when I step in to look for options...its quite tough. First its you and your wealth accumulation and then comes familys wealth accumulation... I mean its okay to keep that as metric but always "exceeds most" of their expectations is not okay.
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Its quite easy tbh, just ppl are rtards in today's gen... And their souls are corrupt and black like a soot wrapped around a shiny white cotton.
easy? What? I didnt get it bro... and not all souls are black.. some are cheated... some are just hurt because of some circumstances... but yes there is a section which is enjoying being black soul..thats super vulnerable...
You appear surprised/worrisome, you are at level 1. This is just the first step towards many more shocking steps that will follow. Let me clue you in - th next is
- your siblings - education, networth
- your siblings inlaws if it's a brother, then his education, networth, his inlaws
- if your siblings is a sister, then is she married or not, and compare it with your family wealth
- how healthy are your parents,unmarried siblings
- your job compared to education. First step of checking your job is measuring your salary limit, this is to see how soon you can grow.
- then 1-6 month "talking" period. They wil feed you BS like "we need to understand each other". In reality, they are most likely talking to 2-3 more people. You are on the waiting list. Or they are delaying to see if a better model comes up
- during this period questions like where will your parents live, your "wants to see the world" , your spending capacity, all come to check. Pray that some one better doesn't comeup during the "understanding" period.
This some things I could think off, will add when I remember some more..
These are personal experience from friends and family.
Each point is a reality check. Thanks !!
Why its said that whosoever is suitable for you or made for you will eventually meet you.
Disect the premise
What is "you"
What is sutaible for this you
Meet where?
My understanding is that these sayings are from spiritual perspective and we(the people) dumb it down to its literal meaning.
Also its 1:33am we should both be asleep by now
I have just started to feel a kind of void in life... so thoughts of having somebody with me is quite common for me these weeks or months... and given how fast "vibe mismatch" happens or "feelings" get developed I have failed the space by attempts... Anyway its just one of that outlierish day when this feeling got even more attention... but yes. Good night bro
I am just saying that the premise you started with is not necessarily said for the romantic relationships.
Regarding your main question, I have no idea.