Female: having dating exhaustion
I am 34. Earning 1 crore + with stocks.
I was in a relationship when I was 23 with a guy. We had met at our first job.
We dated for next 9 years but I denied his proposal to get married as he was always into me, kind, sweet, always putting extra efforts. I thought I haven’t explored many male.
Ditched him. Was on Hinge for last 1 year. Explored my sexuality. It was pretty amazing and pleasing.
Man there are all up for fun but no one is serious for a relationship. I miss my first guy.
But he was very sweet. And kind. And doesn’t have the skills to flirt and find a girl.
Should I approach him? Since I have explored now, I think I can accept him as a companion and get married.
My female friends are saying I can get better but may be I won’t find a man who loves me unconditionally.
What should I do?
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To the guy who she is referring to, if you are reading this, RUN. Don't let such a girl ruin your life at all, AGAIN.
Woman to woman, please stay away from that man, this is so bad - after you explored all and found no one, now you want the sweet guy, wow ... Please heal your inner wound, take a break from relationships or explorations for a while - this is not the way to find a partner - eventually this will backfire for you, either you will leave that guy or he might avenge - or in plain sight karma will serve. Everyone makes mistakes, thing is you realise, analyse, learn, heal, forgive yourself but never forget the lesson, and move on - start fresh. All the best.
Starting afresh is quite hard now. I just don’t feel for anyone. I am devoid of any emotions. What if the guy forgives me? He loved me madly
Don't approach him again and ruin his life.
Please leave him alone!!
hahaha karma is a biaatch
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