Feels like I am losing it

i think you should give me a referral at oracle

Dating is such a gamble bro.....if ur lucky then it's good else barbaad too hona hai acha hai try karke barbaad hoo😅

Can’t believe that even females are feeling lonely and dying to get a boyfriend or good friend. I thought there would be a long queue of guys every girl!!

If dating is your goal then I have a good news for u, according to the sex ratio in India, about 106 males per 100 females, I think it would be fairly easy for u if you try a bit more. So, don't worry you will surely find someone.

Feeling stuck would mean you don’t have a projection for future. Maybe nothing to look up to like a goal or some aspiration. Happens to best of us.

Making friends as adults is difficult. Harsh Truth - you need to go out to meet people in some community like meeting people in book club or running or something like that.

Best to start with something you like, say running, if you are in BLR - you can go to Cubbon during weekends walk and meet people. I once saw people doing improv standup and people joining as well. Talk to people there.

Now, how to go from talking to friendship? Don’t force friendship by oversharing and trying to relate where it won’t happened naturally. Meet with as many people possible, see who you vibe with and can share a laugh then go ahead exchanging numbers and meeting outside like pub or invite to home for food something.. not right away but later on.

Even in dating, if you are desperate, it is visible and people will run away even if you guys would have been great together.

Making friends as adults is difficult, that is for sure, but not impossible.

PS - Sometimes Reddit also works. But be careful😅

Well, where there's a will, there's a way 🤷🏻‍♀️. Since it is you who wants to make friends, you will have to make some extra efforts.

You can reach out to your closest school or college friends. Just text them with a simple message saying it has been long since you've interacted with each other and give them a proposal for a casual meeting at some happy place (like parks, cozy cafés or a place which offers fun activities like basic level of painting, pottery, etc.). If you're not in the same city, just be honest and openly confess that you've been feeling low lately and want to have some mental support, they will surely understand. Also, don't try too hard for this and let everything be as organic as possible; otherwise all of this will take a completely different turn and affect you in a worse way.

But, if you're still not able to succeed, then let me tell you in a very straightforward way that the problem lies with you and nobody else will be able to help much.

All the best!

Exactly at the same place but I'll be 26 in June. Installed bumble and hinge both as well but no luck. So afraid that people might not be same as they're showing in the apps. Everyday just alone in the pg thinking what might happen to my life 🥺.

DM me if you want someone to talk to, we atleast can be friends

Me feeling the same thing as a student.

Become IIT baba bro, go to prayagraj and do meditation

@SoggyBasil4 bhai ye dekho, dusra gender bhi akela hai