Feeling Unsatisfied - Open Relationship
M30
Found true love at the age 18, got married at 25. Explored open relationship at the age of 22. My wife had great physical experiences between 22 to 27. I have barely had one or two encounters. We are emotionally connected with each other. We are at that point where we want to have a kid. But I am have this extreme feeling of unsatisfaction as I have not had many physical encounters neither with my wife nor with others. My wife isn’t that excited in having sex with me. When she was physically active we would make out once in 3 months. She would have similar frequency with others. But now she is not interested in physical encounters with anyone. Even with me the frequency has reduced to twice a year. We want to have a baby soon as she has crossed 30. But I feel that I have a lot of pent up feelings of romance that I want want to experience before having a kid with my wife. I have the permission from my wife to experience that with anyone but I am just not able to. Since two years I have been going to clubs every weekend but I just can’t approach any girl. I have this fear of rejection and I expect the girls to approach me which has happened just twice but things worked out only once. So off late, I have given up hopes of experiencing romance. Any suggestions?
Doctor can help you
Bhai sahab app cuck ho..bhagwan apko thodi buddhi de..
Since yours is an open marriage and you both are okay with seeing other partners without it affecting your feelings, I feel you should just work on your self, physique, try to increase your social surface(figure out your hobbies and find more ways to meet new people). Approach women, but ofc be honest on exactly what you are looking for, it's fine to face rejections as it certainly gives you the conclusion then and there instead of wondering what ifs.
As it is, you arent getting laid at home, if you don't try out(which it seems you desperately want to and your wife is okay with), you will still be the person not getting laid. So, isn't it better to try and fail and learn outside? Odds still would be better than sitting at home and ranting about it
Ghor FOOHking KALYUG, wife and husband giving permission to adultery wah
TLDR : so the OP is a cuck and wife a chinaar.
his kid would be butt of jokes for “ek baap ki aulaad” types
Use dating apps. Much easier to get women there. I can help you with it if need be.
I don't approach IRL, too risky and requires a lot of practice. But I'm fairly experienced with online channels.
Your relationship need growth
