Trending @Infosys; Feeling the unfelt
3 years back, I met someone in my project.. We immediately synced and developed a great bond of understanding and friendship. With time I fell so hard for her and confessed my feelings. She too felt the same.. things went well for 5-6 months. Then she started complaining about my care and concern as overpossiveness. Tried multiple times to clear the air... She fell out and moved on.
A few months back we reconnected as colleagues due to the same project... Today I got to know from her she is getting married.
I'm feeling devastated and at the same time happy for her. May God bless her always.
I'm not sure how to face her normally again, with all those oceans of memories and emotions within me
She definitely played you (as in you were her only option for passing time and it was never serious or there's something you are not telling us) or chose whatever suits her and moved on so better you too move on
He definitely got played, the way he described his situation. Maybe something happened between them or perhaps she never loved him in the first place.
I don’t believe in dating infosys girls 🧒 why would they marry someone who earns same as her . Those days are gone
Don’t worry life happens!! There will always be that feeling of missing out. But look beyond. She has moved on so no point being stuck and spoiling your life and career. Trust me the quicker you move over quicker your life will normalise. There is no rule that you will fall in love only once!!! She will also be in the awkward situation as you!! Just “act” normal. I know it can never be really normal till some time passes
I'm not feeling any anger, hate, FOMO or anything negative for her. I still love her and it's not changing. Not sure how to force my emotions
I went through such a situation. At first they seem best fit and comfortable to us because we are available all the time, once it's getting bored they never shy away from moving on.
Bhai kaam karle. Aise toh JL5 naa milega 🤣
Well I was happy for her as well. I moved on that day. Somehow I managed to make myself understand, that I was waiting for this day to happen and move on with my life. Still remember her , but I think it's way more lighter than it used to be. 🙂 Get used to your residual pain though.
Remember…that means u deserve someone else more worthy. Focus on ur work even though she is in the same project.
In the same boat, not a team mate, but someone working in the same wing. Things were going so well, suddenly they get the realization that this won't go till the end and easily they say, they have lost interest and moved on. Still pains a lot thinking about her.
