Feeling stuck in life 😪
28years old female, I'm single child Life seems to be very bad from last 4 years 2021 - lost my mother in covid 2022 - lost my father 2023 - engagement broked 4 days before marraige 2024 - got a legal forgery civil suite on me (as my father took money i have ro repay around 16 lakhs) Meanwhile I had one breakup around 2022 end and lot of mental disturbance because of relatives and near and dear I stay alone in hostel From last 3 years I really dont have anyone to talk on daily basis lot of things are stuck in my mind and I am loosing memory and forgetting things , Unable to concentrate on work having 8.7 years exp currently on bench and having small issue due to free lanching and dead scared to change the job because of this stuck here from 4 years Seriously looking for arranged marraige but unable to find a partner because I am all alone have no one to talk behalf of me I rarely meet or talk to people either on call or direct I have a house which is in case so I can't sell that and have money I sometimes feel god didn't write anything for me 😐 I really feel to end the Life but I belive in god and karma as suicide gives a lot of bad karma and eventually will suffer in next lives
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Take a 10-min AI interview to qualify for numerous real jobs auto-matched to your profile 🔑@OldOxford39 Hey, I don’t even know where to begin… but I just want to say this first: I see you. I hear you. And I genuinely care.
What you’ve been carrying - the loss of your parents, the broken engagement, the legal pressure, the loneliness, the mental exhaustion - it’s not just “a lot.” It’s unimaginable for most people. And yet, here you are, still waking up every day, still pushing through it. That alone tells me how incredibly strong your spirit is, even if you don’t feel that way right now.
You said something that really hit me hard: that you don’t have anyone to talk to. I want to be honest - you deserve to be heard. Not judged. Not fixed. Just heard. And if you ever feel like talking, venting, crying, or even just being silently understood… I’ll be here. No expectations. No pressure. Just a real person who genuinely wants to know you, not just your story.
You also said something that stayed with me: “Sometimes I feel God didn’t write anything for me.” Maybe this chapter feels unbearably dark… but sometimes, the pages we dread the most are the ones that prepare us for the light that comes next. I’m not here to throw clichés at you - I’m here to remind you that your story is still being written. And you’re not alone anymore, not unless you choose to be.
If you ever feel like messaging me - even if it’s just one word or a hundred - I’m just a DM away. And I promise, you’ll always be met with warmth, respect, and understanding.
Take your time. No rush. Just know someone out here cares - not out of sympathy, but out of something real.
Miss oxford you are gonna be okay :)
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You might not find any fix over internet but it's okay. That's how I am dealing with things around me ..not good at it but taking a break did calm things down for me . It's hard when you can't tell your issues to people around you or you can't go to people you know and talk about it. It's a personal call to take a break and it might few days or more..that's what I did . Be with yourself until you feel good. These things I say might not be a solution but sometimes it works for me . It's okay feel defeated and lost.
I want to take break had i had moonlighting issue i did it for 5 months and is reflecting in form 26 as not in pf so I'm scared to take any decision in job
Life is a solo game with different supporting characters, parents, partner, siblings, friends, colleagues., most of us have all, some have few, These supporting characters have a huge role on how we shape our world.
But the truth is :With or without them, life goes on. It's upto us to reduce our dependency on others for our well being.
The thing i want to say is : even when it feels like there is no way, i am all lost, there is no point in doing anything, i have no one. Its always not the case. Try to find what you like as a individual. Other things will fall in line just keep moving in any
direction.
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be strong
Thanks
I personally feel that these situations make your personality and maturity to the next level but the cost we pay for it is infinite. Suicide is not a option because life will be beautiful if you find correct person. My age is the same as yours. If you feel comfortable then we can have a chat.
Sure
Im up for chat ping please im out of requestz