Feeling stuck in life
I am 28f working in a non-tech role remotely in a reputed company for the past 4 years with 4.5l per annum package. I am feeling stuck in my current job, I am an introvert and don't talk unless necessary at work. There's no growth in the department.what ever few promotions we have are being given to people who are not deserving and because they are friendly with the higherups. I just want to quit take a breaks for 1 or 2 months and the start job hunting. But my family needs financial support. I don't have much time to upskill also. Upon that all the family members talk about is marriage. Honestly seeing the situations I feeling staying single is best. Most people judge me as iam over weight and don't talk much. I feel trapped in life unable to move forward in life. I don't usually share my feelings anywhere as it's anonymous i just felt like sharing here.
Thank you for reading my rant 😂
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A. Promotions are given to people who are doing something right. "Right" can be anything but mostly it's your impact and visibility. And yes, being friendly and sociable counts. Accept it and course correct.
B. Quitting for a few months at this stage without offers in hand in this market is pretty stupid. Prepare along with the job like the rest of us. It's the same situation for everyone. I was working morning and night last year and still made time to prepare
C. Staying single is best until life hits you. Then you wish you weren't single. Workout, eat healthy and find a partner.
Well said sir :)
Go to gym and Get married. Try to learn AI/ML and switch in that domain.
Your telling to learn AI as if it as simple as making Maggi in the kitchen bc
Nothing is easy. Life is hard. Going to gym daily and finding a proper person to marry is for sure harder than learning AI. Karna hi kya hai scikit learn library se you supervised and unsupervised ho jaata hai, and Pytorch ya tensirflow se Neural networks. This is enough to start with.
Always know and realise the fact about yourself. No matter how much low one feels of oneself we are still living the dream life of millions of people who just want to feel lucky if they get part of what we have. We have no right to tell them that what they dream of is waste and meaningless. Acknowledge what you have achieved as noone gave this life as a gift to you for free. you have worked hard for it and all is not gone in vain. Savour the present as after every passing moment this present is becoming past we can never change anything in past but work in present towards a better future First thing is take a short break and breathe out.
Evaluate your situation and once you critically are able to do it you yourself will find the solution to your situation. No matter how much I love someone if I need them to be alive they need to breathe on their own . Similarly only you can figure out what is best for you. Try it ...it works
Haa aur gyaancho😂😂😂
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Do MBA so that either you become extrovert or unemployed 😀
Prepare and switch your job unless you want to be single forever