SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala

Feeling so very grateful for the past 3-4days.

Hi Grapeviners,

Sharing my feeling here in this platform as I’m so very happy today.

I was the worst version of myself since my child’s birth. I’m a new mother who was confused about what’s happening in this world, who was born once again and looked like a newborn child, who was very vulnerable, who was not able to concentrate on any task, who was physically mentally weak to be precise I was very much in postpartum depression.

I was thrown all alone in this situation by my whole bunch of relatives, parents , in laws even after I did many things for them. I was betrayed, used, abused, cheated. But then one positive feeling after all this was my husband who stood there for me during the initial stages of my postpartum.

I’m now 10 months pp and feeling much better only now, I didn’t have any support to raise my baby from day-1 till now. After a long search I have got one babysitter as I have joined my office (WFH though).

Now this post is for her (babysitter) who is punctual in her work, discipline, trust worthy and a good entertainer for my baby, a good friend like figure who is helping me in my family, who is like a relative (after many persons who betrayed me she is the one who is showing light to me) I was longing for this help for 10 months now, 😇 Finally arrived.

Don’t know if she will continue with me and my kid for long but I will still feel grateful for her throughout my life because after all she is the only one who helps me cope up with my mental state , office, and family.

I know she works for money I don’t know if she will have humanity and work for less money if I explain my situation. No problem even we work for money nobody works free

ADDING VALUE is the biggest thing which she is doing for her job so paying her more money is not a big deal for me Thanks Akka for the help.

Baby R and I will always support you and be grateful for you 😊

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DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

You acknowledging the efforts even though you know she is doing the work for what she is being paid for, is commendable. It’s hard to see beyond that😇

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SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

:)

FloatingSushi
FloatingSushi

One of the best post I read in GV. Because most of posts on salary promotions hikes work culture, toxic manager or toxic team etc.

You’re appreciating her work even though she’s just doing it for the money. Has any manager ever appreciated the work you’ve done so far—not just the times you went above and beyond?

SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

:)

SwirlyCoconut
SwirlyCoconut
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SparklyPancake
SparklyPancake

What is the salary of the babysitter?

SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

How much ever she requested

SparklyPancake
SparklyPancake

🤣🤣🤣

DizzyBoba
DizzyBoba

Bhai tldr bhi de dete thoda sa maja hi aa jata

SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

Matlab?

DancingDonut
DancingDonut

TLDR: Beautiful souls exist in the world

Pay her yearly festival bonus like that if you have enough money. Please take care of her basics needs.

DancingDonut
DancingDonut

Bumping this up to my boss

SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

Sure thing

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle

I feel like this is a story of a rare metal stronger than diamond in the making. Keep going diamond lady! You got this. Shine brighter than a diamond.

SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

❤️

SparklyKoala
SparklyKoala

Congratulations. I can feel this as Iam also a new mom. Now my baby is going to be 1 year old this month. Initially it was tough and I used to have a very bad postpartum. Now things changed Iam so happy. My husband, Parents, all supported me. Now I have to go to office and looking for a babysitter. I hope I too get one who work honestly and can entertain my baby.

SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

Cheers fellow new mother

TwirlyBurrito
TwirlyBurrito

Awww. Congratulations girl and God bless the baby. Such a nice thing to appreciate someone 🩵

SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

Thanks :)

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Congratulations on motherhood! The baby is going to grow in great environment!

SleepyKoala
SleepyKoala
TCS1mo

Thank you so much

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