GoofyMarshmallow
GoofyMarshmallow

Feeling numb and need to reduce emotional dependency

Hi I was in relationship with her for 3 year. I don’t know what is the exact reason we broke up but it ended before 10 months. I tried to contact her but I was blocked everywhere, tried from different source still no show up they will be also blocked after hearing my name. I don’t know how to overcome this pain. She was there for all three years has a support for me. Now I feel like loosing half of me. We broke up on my birthday it is the biggest trauma for me now. Seeking support or depending from everyone I meet but I can’t feel the same feel from her. I literally missing everything about her . Last time I cried was on my break up day it was before 10 months till now I haven’t cried. I need to cry but I can’t kind of feeling numb. I don’t know what to do searching her in everyone I meet. Whenever I try to distract myself from her memories I deep she coming again. I have tried gym and stuffs. I’ll drink not regularly but partially I’ll smoke. Still I seeking emotional dependence to say exactly I’m searching her.

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GoofyLlama
GoofyLlama

Here is one such post - https://share.gvine.app/8R8AwZB776rsNEo58
I sincerely hope the comments in my post helps you too.
Bro, don't give a shit about her. She leaving you does NOT have anything to do with your value. It does not define you in anyway.
Work on your things.

There is a saying.
If a girl leaves you, you should ensure that you live a life that she can't even imagine getting.

I hope you recover quickly. Or You can DM me to rant anything or share something. I would patiently listen without being judgemental.

GoofyMarshmallow
GoofyMarshmallow

Thanks for your words it mean a lot ✨

GoofyLlama
GoofyLlama

Anytime!

SqueakyMochi
SqueakyMochi

Cry once and forgot it all and move on
Best of luck for your future

GoofyMarshmallow
GoofyMarshmallow

Thank you 🍃

ZoomyNugget
ZoomyNugget

Just take time its ok to feel vulnerable at this phase, slowly time heals you , and try working out and find peace by walking in greenery and go solo trips meet new people
Don’t just listen to people who say “find multiple people and have sex “ honestly that would not work out

GoofyMarshmallow
GoofyMarshmallow

Thank you for your words 🍃

GoofyBiscuit
GoofyBiscuit

Probably you have already considered these - therapy, spirituality, travel and knowing that you are much more than the version of you that was with her.

GoofyMarshmallow
GoofyMarshmallow

Yeah but even some part of me is missing her so much

ZestyBoba
ZestyBoba

Get a new girlfriend, in fact multiple new girlfriends, have lots of sex, you will feel better

GoofyMarshmallow
GoofyMarshmallow

Not instrested in it bro 🤷‍♂️

SquishyPotato
SquishyPotato

TBH You’re not missing her you just want to know the reason. And let me tell you the reason she find some other guy may be a rich one so focus on making money that’s only thing you’re missing rn. Missing her or a part of you is not with you these lines are not made for this generation. Accept the fact that she was already looking for someone better than you and when she felt like she has founded that guy she just left you. I am not here for some emotional comments just spitting the facts.

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