Feeling exhausted
am 27 f unmarried female. I have lots of problems in my horoscope and would be tall black tanned. Everyone rejected me after meet up. My parents always forces me to get married to person who I don't like becozof horoscope age . I don't know I feel so tired in fighting with them . They asked me to die because I was burden to them. In my career, I was most successful person in my early days. Last year I was with team where people always gossip alot . They always ask me when will I get married ? I don't know I will answer them quietly. Later I feel like I was bullied and the work is not technical. The lead will push everything on me and work is also not technical. I got released. After that condition got worsen in my home . I can't get into any project. I have fear of same work place experience. I am the only earning person in my family. I need complete developer role but because of my roles and my mental health I can't get into any project . I don't know why I can't sleep well for past 2 years .I can't remember what I have learned . Can't get project job opportunity. It seems to be mental exhaustion / mental fog . I don't know I am not feeling any man as my type . Feeling dumb.
Only 27 ? I actually moved to a different country from TCS when I was 27 and didn’t had a house of my own. I am still unmarried (36) and had relationship (marriage date was finalized) that ended recently because the person wanted me to just stay in TCS and focus more towards family. I understand creating a family will take priority but he didn’t want to do anything and want everything from me. So, just don’t feel sad about it. This is life many things will come your way but you need to keep your fighting spirit high. Moreover, just ignore people they can only talk rubbish but can’t to anything to you. It’s your life and don’t be afraid of conducting it in the way you want it happen.
Have some confidence in your self and if you want developer role start preparing for it.. whatever time you get in a day..be in 1 min, 10 mins or 5 hours..Start exercising.. when you will get confidence in what you do and you will see progress your all tensions and fear will go down.. Always focus on something better.
Change company asap. I was in same situation and believe me TCS is the culprit of mental health issues. TCS doesn't deserve you.
I know it's hard, but don't give up. I have always felt marriage is like a trap, unless you meet someone who can really understand and love you for who you are. Who knows you might end up finding a really good man:) From parents pov it's hard for a girl's parents because people don't let them be at peace, they constantly be like when is your daughter getting married and talk all kinds of rubbish which will hurt any person on the planet. All we can do is face it with strength. Don't let anything affect you, it's hard I know, but only we can protect our own mental peace. I'm in a different situation but I'm mentally physically exhausted too. But, let's not give up ok? You can do it, you are much stronger than you think. This too shall pass and it will definitely pass. Girl, you can really fly, you just need to drop those weights you're carrying.
You are the only earning in family and you are burden
Bwhahahaha seriously man 🤣
For some parents it does not matter even if the child is the sole earning member of family, for them an unmarried girl child is just like a burden. I wish this narrative in our Indian society really changes. Be it a girl or boy I hope marriage status stops defining their worth based on it.
I'm elated to say today is the last day in this kachara company. Lost my skills and working acumen. Hope , my next journey is better. Feeling scared because of inactivity but I'm excited. I'm 33 unmarried male. Same kind of kachara questions. Too much politics and no work. It's time for me to relieve out of this inactivity
Don't afraid many of girls facing same issue .. parents thinking their way but can't married to anyone until you found it is suitable for you ..
Hey there We need to be confident in our skin Color talent are not the things that will matter its charecter that matters Pls attend some good counselling Mental health also requires some attention like physical health Pls let me know (dm me) if you need a contact of a good counsellor- i can share you the details
I am given two options either this man or this i am 29 and not very well in career as well , i am planning on upskilling but at this point i am going to get married either of them , they won i lost and if the man says yes it will be yes from my end i will die but will never come back to my family that's all.
Marriage is the most silliest problem on earth in this era.
