DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

Fear of Being Alone

Sometimes this thought really occurs in my mind. I am the only child of my parents being total introvert it's difficult for me to talk to poeple from school and college times whenever i made friends(or whom i thought were friends) drifted apart it was me always who took the initiative to call or meet them but when i observed that no such initiatives from their side I too stopped bothering them. Even with my cousins who are pretty older than me i don't have that close bonding they are busy with their lives too. Now with my parents growing old i really sometimes fear that i will not have anyone in this world whom i can talk to despite my best intentions and efforts i am maybe not that likeable that people will want to go out or include me in plans. I am trying to improve and socialize more but just one sided effort doesn't seem to be worth anymore.

18mo ago
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PerkyWaffle
PerkyWaffle

I'm going through the same buddy, recently shifted to a new city. Don't know many people around here. And also who takes the initiative again and again is a problem eventually, we lose touch. Having said that, you can ping me maybe the vibes will match 🙂

FuzzyQuokka
FuzzyQuokka

include me too, im riding the same boat

PerkyWaffle
PerkyWaffle

@imgood well your username does not agree with you 😅

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

Keep meeting people, eventually you'll find those who make an effort as well.

But in the end, we will all die alone for sure. All the more reason to find good people and maintain relationships with them.

SillyWaffle
SillyWaffle

Same here, but somewhat I feel relieved after getting married, so better find a better half if you have plans to marry someone

DizzyNarwhal
DizzyNarwhal
UC18mo

Same here 😶‍🌫️

DizzyNarwhal
DizzyNarwhal
UC18mo

Same here 😶‍🌫️

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

Same here buddy. Ping me, hopefully vibes will match

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