Faced a Horrific situation.
I am at my hometown.
Was travelling back from a marriage function, when an auto packed with 6-7 members (definitely his family and all ladies and children with another man) off of a sudden came from the wrong side and stopped his auto right in front of my car.
He was unable to go back to his lane as there was a vehicle parked, I signed him to take the reverse but he asked me to do it, which I could not as there were vehicles behind me.
I came out of the car and asked him to take a little back as I could not do it. He started abusing, so I did the same. When the situation became tense, the guy along with one lady came out of the auto.
All of a sudden, the driver caught my hand and kept my hand on that lady's shoulder and started saying why you are touching my bhabhi.
I got completely blank, and was unable to think of any counter or response.
Luckily the other guy with the driver was sensible, he asked his family member to get back in auto and ask the driver to let it go and pulled him back in auto.
What to do in such situations, how can we tackle it ? It was really terrifying
The first thing I did the next morning was to order Dashcam, so at least I have some proof if any such things happen in future.
do not get out of cars, around dehat. be it your own hometown or someone else's.
Dashcam may not capture the full view of the road, if you are outside your car and fighting someone on the side of the road, dashcam will only capture the incident at the front of your vehicle. I would suggest that you stay in your car and use your phone to do a Facebook live of the incident, people start behaving when they realize that someone is recording them.
Slap the bhabhi, kil'em all and become a rogua ninja.
Always de-escalate. Until & unless you belong to a rich or politically connected family, take a deep breath, curse as much as you want in whispers, thank god no one was injured or killed & just go towards your way. You never know how free/unemployed the other person is, and that can make your life a living hell. Staying safe is much more important than winning the ego war!
carry a revolver in the car
Damnnn
