Ex gf is getting married to someone who earns 6x more than me.
Broke up in Dec 2023 as she pulled Abba nai manenge on me.
Got her shadi ka card today through a mutual friend.
Kick in the nuts matter is the guy whom she is marrying to is her father's best friend son.
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Thank your stars dude.
Else she would have taunted you, if I married him, I would have live like a queen.
Papa ki pari going to her prince. You should be happy.
Been on the receiving end, meri wali married a NRI because foreign Jaana hay.. I not only earned more than her, but easily top 1% of age group. But nothing was enough. She didn't even bother telling about wedding date etc. Found out later. Now she messages me about one year later on how things were simpler back, wants to reconnect for "old times" sake. She wants updates about my life suddenly. Blocked her like a plague
Dekh le bhai, part two bhi ane wala hai, vo new gf k sath dekhne jaaio
Well this was obviously going on for days, if not months.
You'll need sometime to see the reality. We'll be here to hear you out C
And don't listen to the revenge ideas people are sharing over comments, she doesn't deserve that emotional energy, not now.
I also went through a break up last year although my circumstances were bit different. Hurts like shit I know, but nothing else can be done here except moving on.
Can't even focus on anything right now. Don't know if I would be able to move on
This too shall pass. Keep yourself busy, switch jobs, go hard in gym so that you get exhausted by the time you come to bed. Helps with sleep !
Most importantly keep yourself surrounded by friends/relatives with whom you can talk whatever you want.
And My DM is always open if you want to talk !
One thing for sure, boys never get over, this will be clinging to you for lifetime, you will have to manage.
I don't think I'll ever fall in love again.
Don't know why this hurts so much and I am constantly getting the feeling that I might have been the problem.
There might be some issues with me thats why se left.
Don't know if this emptiness will ever end
The magnitude of emptiness will subside gradually but never go away, they take away a part of you, some years down the line you will be married to a beautiful girl and will get busy bringing up children, for days/weeks you will not be remembering your past with her, but one fine night while you are about to sleep, the emptiness will come back and hit you like truck.
