Everything boils down to money !!
Kabhi kabhi aisa lagta hai ki har mahine agar gharwale ko paisa nahi bheju to mummy meko disown kar dengi. Beta manna chhod dengi .
Remember the dialogue from Breaking Bad
What does man do — Man provides !!
Or yeh layoff k news sab. God knows what lies in future …
Not complaining, just saying !!
Is it that toxic for so many people?? Family should bring a sense of security in such times. If it's the case try building boundaries.
Funny how people have an issue in providing for parents who spent lakhs in their education. It is not about “Entitlement” because of which parents ask. They safeguarded you for years, in their old years, they need you.
You are taking this to wrong direction. Suppose you have a child for whom you pay all sort of expenses, and in between every month he comes and ask for more money. How long will you entertain this ? It’s not about providing support but more about mindless habit. Lack of empathy.Hope you got this .
So, it is a very strategic investment in that case from them eh! However, I have still been paying my Education Loan for the last four years and still half of it remains outstanding.
They do have their own salaries coming up and our part is just an normal ad on. I don’t deny to give and I can’t, but I just feel they should also understand
Mujhe to month end Hote Hi call aane Lag Jate hain. It’s not even as if there is a need for money, but it has almost become a trend. Me as an alternative source of fixed salary to them. I would not have a concern if there is a requirement, but almost considering it as a monthly add-on make it feel a bit undigestible
True. This is what I was highlighting. Mehnat se paisa aata hai , and if someone takes that granted then it feels bad .
Beta ko bolenge, uske paas to paisa hoga hi, bhej hi dega. !! Bhale hi beta ka haalat khud tight ho 🥲
It's a systematic problem.
We are a poor country with no social security. When humans are treated as garbage, empathy goes out of the window and greed takes its place.
We don't care about hobbies or pursuits or refining our craft. We just care about cold hard cash above all.
Nyah, just Indian parents being toxic. Cut them loose and keep interactions civil.
That’s the issues. Karna kaafi difficult hai. Emotional hoke log rona dhona chalu kar dete hai !!! Bhagwan mere ko utha le wagera wagera . At the end of the day you don’t have any option than to just bow down .
Bro, the generation born in 1970-1990 is worst! They have never seen hard times, they got everything with very little effort and have a greed of controlling everything around them.
For them the world revolves around them as if they are the main characters.
Now let me prove those statements!
Most of the people born in that generation leave separate from their parents, but they don't want their kids to leave them!
They want the next generation to follow them like some religious figures!
So to make you a good follower after you start earning taking financial control is best way, they will ask you to provide your money to them(under the pretext that you lack financial literacy) so that they could make you behave as they want.
Just ask them to teach you financial literacy, and you will see the true colours!
Lol, best way is to consistently break their false sense that they have as a main character, and trust me, initially its very painful but in long run it will protect your mental sanity.
Relationships based on only money are pros....
