Ever encountered a situation where someone peed upon being shouted at?
I remember visiting a married friend who has a 4-year-old. We were casually sitting and chatting when that little monster dived to get her father's phone and started running. The father politely asked her to give it back (new phone things, which I can relate to), he kept pleading, trying different names. My friend and I were laughing because it seemed cute.
Out of the blue, he shouts so loud that we froze. The little girl stopped, she was so scared that she peed right there and started crying. The father took the phone and stomped into his bedroom.
It took me a little time to understand what happened, though the mother was fast enough to react and console the child. But this really scarred me. I don't know what's right and wrong here. The kid shouldn't be running like that, but neither should a kid be subjected to such fear.
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i don’t like mentioning personal lifes anywhere, only this time. there was this time when my father maintained a diary of people who own him some payments.
he ran his catering business, and sometimes forget that in business you should cant giveaway the services out of kindness!
people as expected took advantage of this natire of him, coming up with all kind of bullshit stories for pity, so he always was convinced with that and say to not to bother and you can pay later.
the list was so long as I can remember, but didn’t understand what the words in that diary meant. so i tore the pages out, made an paper airplane and threw it from 10-11th floor to see how it would land! i was 3 or 4 back then.
when he was back from work, he saw that diary was a mess, he knew i was the culprit, my sis was still too young to even walk.
many of you only heard the lines in stories/movies, “i’ll tie you up and leave you alone in the room” but i experienced it first hand when he actually did it :)
next day, as expected he felt guilty and cried, and was worried so we went to hospital for checkup, and on the way back he bought me an apsara pencil and nice scented erasure, so i was happy boi again.
they say, i was monster back then, and thanks to those beatings, look at me, i turned out awesome :)
Discipline is important as well as awareness of what you are doing is right or wrong.
That kiddo will live his whole life full of anxiety
