Drunk DM’d my crush asking her on Date

So, here’s what happened to me. Last Wednesday night, I was out and about, drinking like there's no tomorrow. Met this ex-classmate of mine who I've had a massive crush on since college days. We chatted a bit, then went our own ways. Later, in my infinite drunken wisdom, I decided to slide into her Insta DMs with my number and asked her out on a date. She didn’t reply.

Next morning, I woke up and realized what a blunder I had made. I quickly deleted the messages, thank god she hadn’t seen them. But then, in a panic mode, I sent her an apology DM. She hasn’t replied to that either. Now, I’m stuck in this loop of overthinking like, "Bro, what if she thinks I'm a creep?"

What do I do? 😭

6mo ago
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Round 1 by Grapevine
ZoomyMuffin
ZoomyMuffin

DM 10 more girls a drunk text so that she thinks she ain't special and would never find out abt your crush on her.

CosmicPretzel
CosmicPretzel

10s only season

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus

He might get lucky with 10 others girls. Or get rejected by 10 girls separately and it could crush his soul.

ZestyPotato
ZestyPotato

If you hadn't send a apology dm. We would have created a insta story (including only her) telling your account got hacked and all female in your connections must have gotten xyz message and they can ignore it

ZestyPotato
ZestyPotato

Nothing can be done, Just send her your best meme . Then wait and watch

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

Send her more texts,make it seem like your account is hacked

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus

Why coverup? Confidence me bolo.. hey I may hv drunk DMed you. Thinking about you reminded of some fun places we can visit sometime. LMK… unless she has a boyfriend who can beat you to pulp.

BouncyDumpling
BouncyDumpling

Next time you talk with her, say someone else's name so she knows there is rotation riskl

ZippyLlama
ZippyLlama

season 1 episode 1 : HUMILIATION

SillyBurrito
SillyBurrito

Dude, chill

What if she had seen it? YOLO

You should not have deleted!

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus

What if she thinks you are a creep? Depends on how you asked. Tu kitna drunk tha btw?

GigglyJellybean
GigglyJellybean

Just don't worry too much about it dude , my friend took my phone and message my crush a long cringiest poem about me expressing my feeling in a very relatable manner as if I had types it myself and then she had seen it . Not knowing what to do I deleted the message for myself and then took a screenshot and sent her that my friends did it while I was at gym , I didn't know about it until you replied back , and then it made the situation more worse . So from my experience, just don't overthink , most people don't really remember these stuff as long as you don't make them remember it.... Just be happy and don't think too much , anyways if she's not interested move on , if she was interested she would have replied...

GroovyMochi
GroovyMochi

What happened next btao

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