Trending @Accenture; Don’t want to live anymore, but don’t have guts for suicide
Almost every day i am thinking to finish this life. But just bcoz of my kids, i am not able to do this ( no guts), but every day i pray to god to kill me in accident where I dont get time to think.
Not sure what life i am living, even putting so much efforts still not getting any good chance in life.
No good salary, no backup in life No family support. Never fight to anyone, never said anything wrong to anyone.
Still no one to talk in life. People talk when i call them which now i also stop.
Family stop calling until i call them. No love for even my kid.
Just writing here even its not change anything in life but no one knows me here.
Stay strong man, everything will be fine.
I know many people might have said this or will say again.
But trust me, I have been there and everything will be fine soon, maybe not today or tomorrow. But someday it will.
Why do you need people to talk, you have beautiful kid, talk to them, play with them, take them out on weekends, help them in study enjoy your life with them.
And MOST IMPORTANT, don't think about negatives and stupid stuff.
If we still need someone to talk to, you can DM me.
I do this all, but still i don’t feel good.
So why i feel this? , At age 37 and when you dont have much savings ( no assests ), now body start reverse age. I started little memory issue means don’t able to remember things long time. Even i am preparing for interview but when i read new things, i forget precious one. I am good in development i think as never got any bad or negative comment for work wise but interview is different thing. Same time have many health related issue top to down. At this age when you don’t have much money and you know that your body also not with you and might be you will not able to work after some year. How this feeling comes that why i am here. Might be i am not able to explain things but last some month not able to sleep. Daily i sleep around 12 but get my sleep somewhere 4 or 5am. Event i dont want this all thing and i am trying but things are not working in my favour. Where people just 22 or 25 year of age are better stage and they still have long life. So this all things come in mind and you doubt your self and you don’t able to do anything.
Comparing ourselves with other make u think that u r noway better,,,, hpwever its nt about ur life sucks but its more about other people life doesnt suck... So chill... There r so many people who wish to have a job,,, having an opportunity to go to a good office like u go,,, buy a new bottle ,,, or a new shirt,,,, whatever u can afford but they cannt,,, so also consider those peopke who r unemployed and might look upto u for help or role model... And BTW ur name is imsomething,,,, so u r actually someone who has lot f things to be thankful for...
Stop comparing your self with others, remove all negative things from your mind and environment, Try to allocate atleast 10 minutes for something you love to do like playing with your kids or something which gives you peace.I would suggest a walk with your kid for 10 mins. Don't get stressed too much. Things go in a way it has to. Get some break from your work for 3 days atleast. And Get refreshed and peaceful mind and concentrate on only your things -your work your family then you won't even need someone to talk because you will be busy in your personal World. And remember everything will pass so as this hard times too later on you yourself will thing how foolish I was to get worried that time.
Dont do that... you will left but you family will suffer like anything. Please understand in any situation they can survive so are you but without you it will be like hell.
Dont do it man. Instead think to improve your life live for your kids. Think about then how their life will be when they lost you.
I have faced this that is why telling you. My father suicide when I was a kid. Now I am 30 I know how that pain felt like
I know and that y i am not able do take that as action, but when something happens sudden, you don’t time to think that much.
Go for Vipasana, 12-14 days program for mediation, I haven't attended it yet but believe me this will make you calm , take break and restart. Fight back ,this time shall pass too. You can end your life easily but what about your family? I know everyone here may give you suggestions and all but nothing will work until you accept those suggestions and start working on it.
Be a men and stand against your dark. Some People are happy in 20k and some people are not even happy in 1 lakh pm. So happiness will be decided by you, ofcourse money matters and can bring more happiness but if you are not growing it does not mean you will regret
There are lot many positive things in life we tend overlook when we are more focussed on negatives... And people wish to get a life and you want to end... If things dont go as expected only solution isnnot to end ur life,, go out fr walk,,,, go and watch a movie, try any hobby u wished tp do when u were kid...
Tried everything but when nothing makes you happy. At this age i only want good money for my family future where i am failed
Who said u failed,,, failed is again a relative term,,,, ife has still not ended,,, providing things to family is a continuous process it will never end,,, even if u reach to 80 or 90 years of age,,, so try your best thats the best anyone can do
Heyyy @imsomething I am not old enough in terms of age nor much experienced in life to suggest you anything but : Please let us not feel inferior my looking at other success or happy moments. All of us post only happy / success moments on linkedin or insta, no one posts when they get rejected interview or fired from a job, not posts when they fight with thier family.
So let us be happy with what we have, and enjoy small moments is our life, talk to strangers in and around you while travelling in bus, metro, footpath etc, I do it personally have short convo just to break the ice and feel much better, when I feel lonely.
Let us not this job occupy rest of our life and destroy it in any way, it's okay to have less CTC, ok to be slow in carrer, remember your first salary / college days spendings and let us feel greatful for family kids and most importantly ourselves
Always remembers the life that we are living today is a dream for many people. Let us be greatful
Even I m in same phase bro... I ignore everyone who don't want me/ignore me..even my blood brother who like n njoy my bad life.....Becoz he taken over all properties of my father after he passed away n mother suppot him..i dont have money... I don't care... My wife n kids are my life next some friends who like me n talk with open heart.. I m happy for that....keep me strong... U better come out of the bad mindset I have... Live happily until God take u from earth...
Bro I am same situation but never loose hope ,stop caring too much about other visit spritual place once in month like vridhawan,ayodhya or vaisho devi till you feel ease you can travel with sleeper or 3 ac if you earn less.
Listen premanand baba ,do exercise & don't take too much load of anything, Always remember everyone is trying to look happy but for men greater than 26 year old they have same life .
That feeling comes to almost everyone at some stage in life. You are not in school, college, or community setups anymore where people naturally come to you to talk for no reason. As we grow older, people get busier with their own lives.
You yourself mentioned that they do talk when you call so it’s not that they don’t care. But expecting people to call you all the time without a reason may not be practical. Instead of waiting, you can take the first step to connect whenever you feel like talking.
Also, ask yourself apart from talking to people, what else can you focus your energy on?
About career and money : there is never a point of “enough.” If someone earns 25k, they want 50k; if they get 50k, they aim for 1 lakh. Human needs keep expanding. That’s why it’s important to align your lifestyle with your current income, and at the same time work hard to grow it step by step. Think about those who survive on daily wages , their challenges are way bigger, yet they continue.
I’ll be blunt with you, you’re depressed (which is very real, and I have genuine empathy for you), but nothing “uniquely terrible” has happened to you. What you’re going through is something many people silently go through as well. The difference is in how you respond to it.
