Why not try and build one with your partner?
If the partner is able to support or willing to support then nothing like it.
But if they can't support it financially due to any reason, they should have reasonable expectations and believe in their partner that they will definitely have their own place someday for sure.
So they should be supportive in this way at least I believe.
No need to add one more pressure in an already pressuring world.
Some even dont have that 😅
It is unfortunate that some folks don't have that.
And I don't expect someone to choose a partner who won't be able to earn sufficient money for their family to have their own place.
But these things take time so one has to be slightly patient and reasonable.
I am dumb, but why not live in your Dad's house 👀. For investment and all that i understand. Also if things are not good between you and family or maybe things between second half are not good then also i understand. Sometimes I wonder is there any race for buying house 👀 and living separately. Most of us are looking for freedom by living separately which till now i don't understand. My thinking is most of us are free to do what we want with some limitations if we are living with family but that's bearable no, but paying huge emi is directly loosing our freedom no
You could have enjoyed more, if money is on your side no?. Again buying control is one thing which most of us don't have control but I do (biased me 😝)
My take: While there's nothing wrong with looking for financial security when looking for a partner, expecting that the partner will be having their own place in tier-1 city in today's era before the age of 40 seems too much to me.
Maybe I am wrong but I am glad to be corrected if it's the case.
Glad mine was a love marriage. These matrimonial site expectations are sky high, looking for a match for my brother and they expect on-site job preferably US, own a car there.. lady completes masters but has no plans to take up a job. Some of these girls are too much.. I’m sure would end up marrying a bald old mid 30s guy who achieved all these at cost of his health.
Everything is reasonable as long as you don't get offended if other party also says so... Girls wants 4 bhk flat in Noida fine.. Even guy wants a virgin fair complexioned girl.. Anyone who agrees with one but not with other is a hypocrite...
The person is saying things out loud that he shouldn't ask... All about expectation management from both sides...
The problem is one side inflates too high and the other side deflates too low...
Sad state of Indian Edtech. Next would be Unacademy.
First unicorn of 2024 ?
Also weekly reminder that edtech is a scam
Yet Byjus used to be the poster boy of indian edtech industry. It's all their handiwork. Bad karma always bites back.
In and around Whitefield rents have increased more than 10k compared to last year. It's very difficult to find a good house in budget near to office and near to kid school. Salaries are not increased but cost of living is touching the sk...
There’s this chap on GV who posted that they haven’t received any calls for the past 3 months. Has 2.5 years experience with a current ctc around 15L. We spoke to them only to realise their expectations are 32L (26 fixed and 6 in esops) ...
26 fixed seems pretty reasonable, I don’t know how much lower you can expect
