QuirkyDumpling
QuirkyDumpling
Student

Do pickup art work in India?

So I enrolled in dating and pickup courses from pickup artist of India as well as abroad as well as I read various books on dating and pickup. Now I want to try this out in real. I know that I am going to fail thousands of times and I can bear those failures but the only thing that is stopping me to cold approach women in real life is fear of cops and what if she files a harrasment case against me. Now some of you guys might be saying that if you look ugly then women are not gonna like to be cold approached but the thing is that I look above average and I have seen many guys who are not as good looking as me but they are very much successful with women as they are very much confident and they are having hookups every now and then and here I being an introvert and shy I have no success with women so far although one good thing about me is that I have got some good share of ladies attention. Please guys suggest me what should I do.

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GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba

Leetcode kar Bhai yeh sab nahi.

QuirkyDumpling
QuirkyDumpling
Student18mo

Woh bhi krunga aur ye bhi krunga

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

I've never cold approached anyone in real life and still had plenty of flings. Got approached by women instead. And I'm an introvert too.

There's no single solution that fits everyone. But cold approach does work depending on how good you are with reading body language and how well you can speak.

What I would say is don't force yourself to do it if it doesn't feel natural to you.

QuirkyDumpling
QuirkyDumpling
Student18mo

Just want to know that if I cold approach women in tier 2 city in India will I be get arrested by cops or if she can file a fake harrasment case against me.

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

There is a chance of that happening with cold approach for sure. You need to decide if it's worth the risk or not.

JumpyPretzel
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Slice18mo

I don’t think you’ve a lot of lawyers on this platform

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Unext18mo

Allow me to introduce myself

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